Destinyman, I had always had a fetish and fantasy of being overpowered by a woman and rendered helpless by her. When I got marrried many years ago I especially wanted my wife to do that to me, but we never really wrestled and I assumed I was stronger. However, a year or so ago, she got a little pissed off at me, came at me , threw me on the floor , sat on me and did indeed keep me there helplessly beneath her until she decided to let me up. She did that to me a few more times after that, apparently to fully explore the feeling of her being so dominant over me and now it is clear that she can easily take me. However, now she has not done that for a long time, apparently because the novelty of her overpowering me wore off, and except for the fact that I knoow what she could do to me,our relationship has not changed and she does not threaten or bully me. What is strange is that, despite my prior fantasy of wanting her to overpower me, when it happened I did not like it at all while it was going on. I was miserably in discomfort on the hard floor while her weight pushed me down, short of breath and even at least one of those times begged her to let me up practically crying. Yet when I think about it, what happened still excites me even though I know I did not like the reality. And now that she has not done it for a long time and may never do it again, I kind of wish she would throw me down and sit on me again but I am sure if it happened again I would not want her to keep me down for too long a period of time. In any event, I am not at all concerned that she would ever beat me to death, she is not that tyoe, and our relationship is completely at odds with that ever happening. Let me ask you something Destinyman, why do are you concerned that a woman being able to overpower a guy might lead to the guy's death any more than the ability of a guy to overpower a woman would lead to the woman's death? can't men and women wrestle, even sometimes in anger, without death in any way being a factor?

TadJul 05 2009 5:13am