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Boys or men who work out to catch up to stronger girls or women

Question: Hey guys, have you ever been so bothered by encountering a girl or woman who was stronger, more muscular, or physically tougher than you that you started working out to catch up to her strength or surpass her?
Created by: dennismoore at 12:48:48 PM, Thursday, February 02, 2006 EST

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My big sister and I had a mostly friendly rivalry. We wrestled for fun, but she was so strong she almost always won. She also beat up on me sometimes when I was being a bratty little brother, or sometimes she just did it to show off for her friends. I started lifting weights because I didn't like always being the loser. She just teased me that I was wasting my time because I was so much smaller than her that I would never be able to beat her. One day she got mad at me and was going to beat me up. I just pinned her on the ground until she begged me release her. She could never beat me again.

heavylifterFeb 02 2006 10:13pm


It's exciting when a woman can overpower a man, but the reality is more commonly as "heavylifter" has expressed it.

DRFeb 03 2006 10:42am
It's exciting when a woman can overpower a man, but the reality is more commonly as "heavylifter" has expressed it.

DRFeb 03 2006 10:43am
She did overpower him until he started working out and became "heavylifter"

observerFeb 03 2006 12:15pm
She bullied him until the inevitable happened, he began growing into a man. Women are physically very feeble.

agree with DRFeb 03 2006 4:02pm
If anyone claims women are stronger, they're fools wishing it were true because it turns them on. The claim of women being smarter, is the only claim people can make without it being shot down in an instant.

MichaelFeb 03 2006 5:43pm
So let me get this straight -- do you claim that every single male is stronger than every single female? Sorry, but thats pretty easy to disprove. Strength for each sex is distributed on its own bell-curve. The men's curve is toward higher strength, but there is notable overlap between the male and female curves. This is measured fact, not fantasy. Nobody on this poll has made a general or universal claim that "women are stronger." But some have encountered a particular female that is stronger than a particular male. It happens. The only universal (and therefore not credible) claim so far is that "Women are physically very feeble."

observerFeb 03 2006 6:09pm
My point is clear. men are stronger in *general*. Meaning: More often than not. I only posted the above, because I noticed some people on this board (in other threads) believe that women are stronger, but just don't train as much as men... shows how far out some people are on this subject.

MichaelFeb 03 2006 8:57pm
Growing up, my neighbor girl had big, round hard biceps that put all the boys in the neighborhood to shame. It must have been genetic, because her family was pretty muscular. None of the boys could beat her at armwrestling or wrestling either. She drove two boys to lifting weights because they couldn't stand the humiliation of it - LOL. They eventually managed to get stronger than her but for some time after that she still had bigger, fuller, more impressive looking biceps than them.

AnonymousFeb 04 2006 6:21am
okay, I'll concede that not all women are feeble.I mis-spoke there. For the most part, women are very feeble when compared to men in the realm of sports and any other athletic activity. A small percentage could make it as firefighters but on the whole, you're dreaming if you think women are anywhere near men when it comes to strength. "You throw like a girl" "You fight like a girl" these are insults not compliments.

AnonymousFeb 04 2006 6:37am
I can't imagine the humiliation of encountering a stronger woman in bed either. I love taking an outgoing, confident woman and watching her drop to her knees for me. I love watching her submit to the masculine and accept my total and complete domination. Not in an S&M sort of way, merely by manipulating them physically until they yield and orgasm in the throes of their ecstatic subordination to ME. YES! Women are weak and I love them for it. It's natural.

AnonymousFeb 04 2006 6:47am
It has already been proven through several different research projects and published information that women have far more muscular endurance. Women can hold a muscle contraction against a load 75 percent longer. It is little wonder than when women who workout and have about the same muscle size as the men they armwrestle usually win.

AnonymousFeb 04 2006 10:43am
Face it, most girls and guys are too lazy to work out! Puberty brings added size and strength to boys without working out -- but it doesn't do the same for girls so they mostly fall behind. As for the girls who lift heavy and work out hard, YOU GO GIRLS!! Sooner or later you'll pull ahead of the couch potato guys. Er um, uh oh.

couch potatoFeb 04 2006 4:57pm
Actually "observer" is right and "agree with DR" is wrong. If I hadn't started lifting she would have been able to beat me up for at least another year. I was still smaller than her when I beat her and I was not especially strong until I started lifting.

heavylifterFeb 07 2006 8:32am
My girlfriend has become more and more annoying, all the time teasing me that she has become stronger than me. She has been working out like crazy the last year, boxing 3 times a week and in between working out with weights. When we met 2 years ago I was able to pin her when we playwrestled and I could also beat her right handed when we armwrestled, the thing is that she is a leftie and she could beat me with her left hand even then. Her muscles are bigger, a lot bigger now. I am not working out in a gym since I hate it, I am playing squash and tennis now and then and I jog. My gf has challanged me to different tests of strength for a long time but until a week ago I avoided all these challanges. It was the classical tussle for the remote control that started it. She wanted to watch a programme while I was watching wrestling and she just took the remote from me. I tried to take it back and it soon became very clear who was stronger. She had me pinned in notime under her and teased me that I was weaker than a small girl. I made up some excuses so we went at it again. She just played with me, her muscles are not only bigger than mine now but way stronger. After that we armwrestled righthanded and I lost badly. I don't like being weaker, not at all since she teases me about it. I think about joing a gym for the first time in my life. My gf seems to like the fact that she is stronger. And she said that I was lucky we didn't box, she would have killed me than.

HenriFeb 08 2006 2:33am
Henri, I should be so lucky.

WaltFeb 09 2006 9:32am
Henn, what are you respective weights? Has she ever lifted you in th ecourse of wrestling?

crismossFeb 09 2006 2:11pm
Very interesting stori Henri. I envy you for having such a strong, confident girlfriend. How are things now? Did you start working out to catch up with her?

AnonymousFeb 15 2006 9:27am
My gf and I are both around 165 lbs, I am a bit taller at 5'9 to her 5'8. I have been to a gym once since she showed her superiour strength. Like I said I don't like her to be stronger, she teases me about it all the time and also tells her friends about how much stronger she is. I still love her. I realize that I will have problems to become stronger than my gf. I couldn't move any big weights at all at the gym and since I hate lifting weights I need to force myself to become stronger. She just loves working out. The thing is that she could beat me up as easy as that since she is very good at boxing. I don't think she wants to beat me up but just knowing that she can is bad. Or am I over reacting? It seems that a lot of guys like their wives and girlfriends to be stronger.

HenriFeb 19 2006 11:47pm
Henri, everyone's case is different. Does your gf tease you in a nasty way to humiliate you or a sexy way to get you to admit her strength and appreciate it? I don't see anything wrong if a woman develops superior strength and skill as long as she can deal with it in a positive way and not turn into a bully and as long as you can deal with it in a positive way and appreciate how sexy her new strength and confidence makes her.

docMar 01 2006 11:42am
I wonder how many of the guys who work out to catch up to a stronger female actually succeed and how long does it take?

curiousMar 02 2006 9:41am
I have been working out for almost a year and I'm not as strong or muscular as my wife yet. We have our own gym equipment at home and she exercises daily when I'm at work. It's embarrising for me. She puts in more time at it than I do and recently showed me up in strength and in the mirror with her build. I'm 5'10" and only an inch taller than her. She now out-weighs me and is bigger. Her upper body build is bigger and her legs are several inches bigger and far stronger than mine, something I really doubt I can ever match is her legs. She's about 15 percent stronger in her upper body right now and about 50 percent in her legs. She always been athletic and loves to work out. I think her legs will always be stronger but it's the time she puts in that put her ahead in strength overall. There are times I get up for work at 5 AM and can hear her pushing weights or doing aerobics already. I'm not that kind of person to push myself.

DaveMar 04 2006 11:28am
Hey Henri, if you learned some boxing you would beat her. A friend of mine who boxes says girls can't punch very hard and they can't take handle as hard or as many punches as guys. Because of this he has been able to beat strong girls who were bigger and more experienced than him.

boxfanMar 05 2006 9:24am
I don't think I've ever met a woman who was stronger than me, fitness freaks included. And I'm not a huge strong guy. Pretty much average, really.

CragsladMar 06 2006 10:03am
Cragslad, I'm guessing you must mean you're average among guys who go to the gym and work out regularly. Otherwise it shouldn't be that hard to find a fitness woman who is stronger than you.

AnonymousMar 16 2006 2:54pm
I work out with my wife at home. Over time she has become stronger than I am and even has more muscle size by an average of two inches circumference. I have tried to develop my muscles in order to catch up but have yet to gain on her. She claims that she has more muscle because of her genetics. Her muscles are harder and are shaped different as well. The hard thing for me now is that she is now interested in wrestling me and proving something. I'm not as stronger as she is so she is taking advantage of her muscles. She is also exercising more often than before and bragging about this whole thing. Is there a recomended supplement that I should use?

DaleMar 20 2006 8:30pm
My wife has big muscles now because she stays home and works out when I'm at work. The scary thing is she's harder than me and has muscles that are about the same size. This didn't take very long for her, maybe a little over a year's time and she might be stronger than me now. I barely have time to exercise so it has become clear she will out muscle me in short order so I'm really trying to fit in good workouts but I've yet to gain much in the last few months while I can see the change in her physique all to easy. Her legs are bigger than mine now and her upper body is very close to my size. Sitting next to her in shorts has become an embarrisment for me when you see her muscles next to me legs.

RobertMar 20 2006 8:45pm
The more weak a woman is, the more I love her. My ideal woman can't do even one pushup, because her arms are too thin and weak.

Anonymous ManMar 27 2006 9:19pm
Anonymous man, I'm sorry you are so insecure that you need such weak women. At least it leaves the good women for me.

luv muscle grrlsMar 29 2006 3:19pm
Us men had better start working out seriously! This business of girls being stronger than us men is NOT funny.

AnonymousApr 02 2006 6:46pm
Don't worry - most females will always be weaker than most males. Its just that we'll see more and more girls with bigger more powerful muscles who can overwhelm any guy who doesn't work out seriously - like that sexy young muscle girl in the video. But she looks too sweet to be the bully type. I don't think she would hurt you.

love herApr 04 2006 7:45am
Thor, the male in that video has no muscles.

AnonymousApr 20 2006 2:53pm
I noticed that he has no muscles. Thats why I thought it might be interesting if they tracked him on a real fitness program to see how long it would take him to catch up to the girl.

thorApr 21 2006 11:05am
I am making an open invitation to strong wives/girlfriends to tell their stories and for the husbands/boyfriends to respond. I am researching for a possible feature documentary on the way women are becoming physically stronger and fitter and being more the dominant partner. I need couples or singles to be honest and open about their relationships and possibly appear on film recounting their stories. Would be nice to hear from any interested parties. I and the film company are based in the UK but will look to source any stories or experiences in Europe, USA or elsewhere. My email address is dflexer01@hotmail.com - look forward to hearing from anyone with an interesting story. Thank you for your attention.

Daniel (21/04/06)Apr 22 2006 12:02am
Her arms were clearily bigger, but how old is the boy? He didint look like he was fully developed yet

AnonymousApr 24 2006 7:25am
Women should be wearing miniskirts as often as possible: At work, school, shopping, public events, etc. And get rid of those irritating SLEEVES! Women should be showing arms, shoulders and back. This business of women wearing sleeves and long pants that cover knees is GARBAGE !!

He ManMay 01 2006 10:27pm
When I was a kid I had a friend who was always kind of thin and scrawny but macho. It seemed to work until he was 12 or so when his family moved to another town. I saw him a couple of years later and he had become incredibly muscular. I was surprised and asked what happened. He said that in his new town there were a lot of Scandanavian families with big, brawny girls. After he moved there he found that, to his utter shock and dismay, several girls in his class were bigger and stronger than him. Some of them even pushed him around and intimidated him and he couldn't do anything about it. At first his ego was crushed and he was afraid of a couple of girls that bullied him. The only solution was to get serious about working out, so he worked out obsessively to get stronger than the big rough girls and get their respect. He said he got stronger pretty fast. One day after school the biggest strongest girl started trying to push him around. Even though she was taller and probably heaver, he just grabbed her and shoved her against a tree and warned her that she would get hurt if she kept trying to pick on him. She tried to fight back but he just used his new muscles to overwhelm her. After he just plain overpowered and dominated the biggest toughest girl, all of the other girls either went into hiding or started sucking up to him.

AnonymousMay 16 2006 9:06pm
Now that's how a true man solves that sort of situation, kickin' ass and takin' names.

AnonymousJun 07 2006 7:26pm
I too was bullied and beat up repeatedly by a big tough girl when I was young. It felt horrible. I don't think that kid did anything wrong taking on the girl who was tormenting him. I should have done something like him but I didn't. I never got strong enough to defend myself from that girl before she moved out of town. She still comes back in my nightmares and terrorizes me.

regretfulJun 15 2006 2:52pm
Like Robert said, most men are working at least 5 days a week for the entire day. Men don't have time to work out anymore. Women on the other hand tend to work shorter days and less physical jobs, so they have extra time to work out. Naturally men are stronger than women, but if a women weight trains and the man doesn't then eventually she will pass him in strength. Now on the other hand I've worked construction with guys that have done it their entire life and their arms are 100% solid. I've seen an average sized construction worker that didn't look very muscular dominate a huge guy that constantly lifts weights in arm wrestling. His arms weren't near as big, but he was far stronger than the other man. As for these horror stories of tough girls picking on little guys in school, that's new to me. Most of the girls were bigger then theb boys until things reversed in middle school. By highschool nearly all the men were larger than the women as usual. I didn't see any girls trying to bully any boys.

AnonymousJun 19 2006 7:42am
There have always been girls who were bigger, stronger, and tougher than the boys in their class and not afraid to prove it. Sometimes some of them bully some of the boys. Its probably more common now than it was a few years ago because girls are more assertive in general and more girls are working out. I agree that it probably is not very common in high school, but even there you can find skinny boys with noodle arms that wouldn't have a chance against a tough girl who works out.

jimmyJun 21 2006 2:35pm
Did anyone happen to save that youtube video? It's been deleted.

AnonymousJul 12 2006 7:41am
July 21, 2006

AnonymousJul 21 2006 6:08am
I had a crush on this cute girl in my class. One day we were having armwrestling contests in school and she beat me pretty easily with both arms. I bet her that in two months I'd put her arm down and I hit the weights.

armwrestlerJul 28 2006 8:23am
So, did you win the bet you made with the cute girl?

curious1Jul 28 2006 11:59am
Police Hunt 4 Women In Beating Death Of Bingo Winner April 11, 2006 www.local6.com/news/8608871/detail.html Police in Toronto are searching for four women suspected of beating a man to death over a $1,000 jackpot he had just won in a bingo hall, according to Local 6 News. Police said Yousif Youkhana, 58, was walking outside the Country Bingo Hall over the weekend with his $1,000 winnings when he was approached by the women. When Youkhana refused to hand over the jackpot, the women kicked and punched him, the report said. Witnesses said the man stumbled back into the bingo hall after the attack and later died from his injuries. The women fled on foot after the beating, according to witnesses.

curious1Jul 28 2006 11:59am
Of course, I won! After 2 months I was a lot stronger than before. Before the match she was flexing and bragging that she would slam my arms down. She tried, but her girl muscles were no match for my weight trained testosterone powered arms. We went out for awhile after that and she challenged me a few more times, but I was still working out and it got easier and easier to beat her.

armwrestlerJul 31 2006 2:52pm
If there was a family where the two 90-year-old grandmothers looked prettier than their 18-year-old granddaughters, would that be normal? Would that be comparable to women who are stronger than their husbands, since both situations are reversals of normalcy? Would the granddaughters be humiliated if 18-year-old boys told them that their grandmothers are twice as pretty as they are? And would that humiliation be comparable to men who have half the strength of their wives?

Samurai PsychiatristAug 24 2006 6:48pm
Your comparison is ludicrous. By the typical standard of beauty, which values youth, it would be impossible for any 90 year old woman to match someone 50-60-70 years younger unless the girl was severely deformed, etc. On the other hand it is not that unusual for a healthy female to be or to become stronger than some males.

commonsenseAug 25 2006 9:19am
New Poll: THE WAR AGAINST BOYS www.likelike.com/poll.php?poll_id=2603

AnonymousSep 19 2006 6:00pm
Has anyone here read THE WAR AGAINST BOYS, by Christina Hoff Sommers? I just finished reading it, and it is excellent.

AnonymousSep 28 2006 11:59am
A tough girl at school used to push me around and humiliate me. Finally a friend told me to hit the weights. I eventually got stronger than her and she started treating me better

andrewOct 21 2006 8:57am
Andrew, your story reveals that the alleged ethidcal superiority of females is a myth. When they get the power, they become as cruel as the worst men.

AnonymousOct 22 2006 9:07pm
Andrew, your story reveals that the alleged ethical superiority of females is a myth. When they get the power, they become as cruel as the worst men.

Spelling CorrectionOct 22 2006 9:07pm
Of course females aren't ethically superior. Neither are males-they're just different. Boys' aggression and cruelty is often physical. Most girls aren't strong enough to be physically aggressive with boys so they are aggressive and cruel in other ways. This girl was really tough and she loved to prove it by physical bullying. She still bullied lots of girls and a few other boys after I put her in her place.

andrewOct 24 2006 8:31am
Andrew, you should have given the female bully a real beating to stop her from bullying the other kinds.

AnonymousOct 24 2006 9:28pm
the other kids.

Spelling Correction AgainOct 24 2006 9:29pm
I was walking by as the bully beat this other kid at armwrestling at lunchtime in the school cafeteria. She flexed and told him not to feel bad because she was going to put little Andy's arm down even faster-if I even had the guts to armwrestle her. I let her get a start so she couldn't claim I cheated and then I put everything I had into it. She fought all the way down, but she didn't have a chance. She was shocked, even more so when I flexed. After that she knew not to mess with me. I couldn't just go out and beat her up.

andrewOct 26 2006 10:20am
Andrew, how old was this female bully, how old were her male victims and how old were you?

AnonymousOct 26 2006 8:05pm
We were in the same class. I was 16 when I outmuscled her for good. She'd been pushing kids around and bullying them for years. With boys it was usually guys in our class or a year or two younger.

andrewOct 28 2006 10:41pm
I want the women of this poll to give their statistics, regardless of whether or not they have muscles: age, height, weight, and measurements of biceps, calves and abs, and pounds lifted, and number of years lifting weights (if any).

10024Oct 29 2006 7:13am
I challenged my bf to an armwrestling match some months ago. It was just for fun really but I have been working out hard the last years and felt strong. We are of similar build, he is a bit taller at 5'10 but I am some pounds heavier at 170 lbs. We were both surprised when I won rather easily with both arms. He wanted rematch after rematch, he was very embarassed about being weaker. For each match I won easier since I had better endurance as well. After about 20 matches with each arm he admitted that he was weaker (stubborn men). The next day he joined a gym and bought a set of weights. For about a week after our armwrestling evening he could hardly use his arm, they ached like he had been beaten up he said. I would say that he is a normal male, perhaps a bit weaker than the normal guy but not weak. We had a rematch last week and he was stronger but I still could beat him without too much effort, I haven't told him but I also increased my workouts. I like to stay stronger than him. We are both in our mid 20s. I have beaten other men armwrestling, won more than I have lost. Against women I have won almost all the matches except for two. My bf has begged me not to tell anyone that I am stronger than him and so far I haven't. I found this board where people have similar experiences. It is really not a big deal that I am stronger but since he couldn't take me being stronger I also got a bit childish and worked out harder to stay stronger.

Strong girlfriendNov 08 2006 11:46pm
Good for you, strong girlfriend! You should be proud of the strength you have built, and so should your boyfriend. Guys should understand and appreciate that when women work out they get strong! Stay stronger than him if you can, buy keep the competition friendly, and be supportive of each other. And please come back here to post updates!

admirerNov 09 2006 7:19am
Strong girlfriend, if you do not allow your boyfriend to catch up to you, he might not be your boyfriend anymore. How much humiliation to do expect him to endure before he dumps you?

High School GraduateNov 09 2006 8:37pm
HSG thats silly!

AnonymousNov 11 2006 6:48am
My girlfriend and I workout together and she is actually gaining strength and muscle better than me. She enjoys comparing our muscles. For a while I was overtraining to try to match her and that proved to be of no use of course. In a matter of two years she's become the stronger of the two of us and is more muscular. I've excepted it, she just has better muscles.

RickNov 11 2006 9:59am
I remember when I was about 14 years old my younger sister was on a swim team. Her shoulders became so broad that they were at least two inches wider than mine in the frame. She had also developed her muscles. I would do push-ups to try to pump my muscles because I was jealous of her body. She could beat me at armwrestling and soon wrestling. I could never develop my muscles to beat her at strength. The most embarrising thing was when she wrestled me down and pinned me in from of our dad and had her knees on my arms. She held me down and flexed her muscles while even our dad looked embarrised at me. I was always taller but she had the muscle and was bigger in her frame. Next to me she looked like a bodybuilder.

FrankNov 12 2006 8:53am
High School Graduate, if my bf dumps me because I am stronger he can't really be in loved with me can he? I have beaten several guys at armwrestling the last months, just to test my strength. Some of these guys I have beaten even easier than my bf. And I have also lost twice to girls stronger than me. I think it is more common than most people think that girlfriends and wives are stronger than their partners. Since most people in our society mainly work at offices being strong is more and more a question of working out or not. And of course about size. Men are bigger and because of that in most cases stronger but many women work out really hard to become strong, and I am sure we will beating men at "their" games more and more often.

Strong girlfriendNov 12 2006 11:57pm
I am 20 years old, working in a store. I normally work together with two girls my age, they are both very athletic and play handball, both are a bit taller than me close to 180 cm, and a good deal heavier. The other week we got a shipment with 150 sacks of rice, each weighing in at 25 kgs. The three of us should put this in the shelves at the back of the shop. I started to stash the sacks on the lower shelves and after my 10th sack I started to loose the power in my skinny arms. The girls lifted the sacks to the higher shelves. When I was about to lift the sacks to the highest shelf I had problem, I could have lifted the sack over my head to the top shelf if my arms had been fresh but now I had big problems. (I know, I am not very strong). I could lift two up but then I dropped one. The girls realized that I couldn't lift the sacks any more, they smiled and told me to leave the heavy lifting to the stronger sex. I watched these young women lift the heavy sacks like they weighed nothing, I could see their muscles in their shoulders and arms (sleeveless) and I for the first time realized that I was just no match for these athletic girls. When I came home to my girlfriend I told her about the embarrasing situation and said that these girls were very special being so much stronger than me. My girlfriend is nowhere as big as my collegues but she told me that she was sure she was stronger than me as well. This lead to an armwrestling match. My girlfriend is about 170 cm and perhaps 69 kgs, I am 177 cm and 64 kgs. She absoluteley killed me slamming first my right and than my left arm to the kitchen table. I was shocked, are all women stronger than me? Now my gf is working out and have some muscles in her body. I am the skinny type, bookworm. I have started to work out now, I really need to get stronger.

BosseNov 15 2006 1:13am
Bosse, what state are you in?

AnonymousNov 18 2006 8:19pm
I live in Sweden, plenty of bigboned girls around here.

BosseNov 20 2006 4:33am
I live in Sweden, plenty of bigboned girls around here.

BosseNov 20 2006 4:33am
November 27, 2006

AnonymousNov 27 2006 10:36am
Do you think the bigboned girls of Sweden are naturally stronger than smallboned Asian guys?

AnonymousDec 01 2006 7:15am
I am sure a big Swedish woman would be stronger than a small Asian man but if the woman have never worked out and the Asian guy have been working out or is working with anything physical you never know.

BosseDec 03 2006 10:32pm
I never thought that I would see this but my wife's muscles are larger than mine and she is much stronger than I am. This after we bought our own gym equipment a few years ago. I've been playing catch up but it's not that easy I've found out. She has more endurance and out works me, this day after day has built her strength up actually faster than I could. First closing the strength gap with me and than widening the strength gap with her being stronger.

LarryDec 05 2006 7:58pm
My story is similar to many others. My wife became a gym rat some years ago, started off with aerobics twice a week then started lifting weights once a week and after about two years worked out 4 times two hours every week. One Saturday when she came from the gym she was standing in front of our big mirror flexing her now very impressive muscles. This was the first time I have seen her flexing and I was shocked. Of course I had felt her being firmer and harder but the change had been over a long time so this was the first time I really noticed her muscles. She could see I was shocked, smiled and said "come on and feel my muscles". I felt her rock hard biceps, triceps and also her big thighs. She than wanted me to strip to compare. I didn't want to but at the end I gave in. I am in decent shape but my muscles were clearly smaller and not as hard as my wife's. She wanted me to admit she was bigger and stronger, but I refused. After this she several times challanged me to armwrestle her but again I refused saying that this was just a silly way of testing strength. One evening about a year ago when we were going to bed she pushed me down on our bed and pinned me. She wanted me to say she was stronger. I said that we needed to have a real wrestling match. We cleared the living room and started to wrestle. I felt really stupid, us being in our mid 40's, me 5'10 and she 5'9 but she is about 15 lbs heavier at 165 lbs. She attacked straight away and I am afraid it became very onesided. First of all I am not very aggressive and I have being taught to protect women, not wrestle them. My wife this evening showed me that she is tough and very strong. Her arms, shoulders, legs, back well her entire body was stronger than mine. I was pinned many times that evening. The day after I joined a gym and started to work out 3 times a week. My body changed and I became much stronger within a year and some weeks ago I for the first time challenged my wife to an armwrestling match. She knew I had been working out but looked very confident. She said that she was too much ahead for me to ever catch up in strength. I gave her a match with my right arm, it took her perhaps one minute to win and she had to fight. But she slammed my left hand to the table in seconds since she is a leftie. We later on wrestled again for the second time in our lives, she had a tougher time winning but she had me pinned in 15 minutes or so. I will now work out harder, I am not happy being weaker than my wife like many other men on this and other boards dealing with the subject of women being stronger. But I am not about to leave her because she is stronger either, most of the time we live like before, she is teasing me now and then but it's all done with humour. Or kids (a boy and a girl) think it is cool with a strong mother. I think it is cool with a strong wife but not one that is stronger than me.

OllieDec 07 2006 11:23pm
My wife and I jioned a gym five years ago and after almost two years we decided we could save some hassles by having our own gym at home. Over the last few years my wife has gained more strength than I have. Her legs are stronger and more muscular but in the upper body she has gained strength to become nearly as strong as me in single lifts. If we do sets with what is at my 70 percent maximum lift for reps on down to 40 percent, she becomes the stronger lifter buy doing more reps as the weight goes down and reps go up. At legs she can beat me at both brute strength and endurance. When my wife first said that women are stronger 'pound for pound' I had laughed at her! I first found out that she had an arguement when she beat me at incline bench single arm curls with what was about 60 percent of my maximum single that was about 10 percent more than hers. I can bench 225 lbs.

JasonDec 09 2006 2:17pm
When I armwrestle my husband it goes 50/50 for the first two or three matches. After that I start beating him up! He gets weaker after a few times when I'm starting to get pumped! After arm wrestling I had him flex and I could SINK MY FINGERS into the muscle and squash it. He tried to squeeze my muscle when I'd flex and couldn't dent my bicep much AT ALL. I have harder muscles!

ShellyDec 09 2006 2:28pm
I suddenly realized that women spend lots of time thinking of ways to control us men. What a fool I have been for not realizing that many years ago.

NathanDec 09 2006 5:56pm
December 11,2006

AnonymousDec 11 2006 1:18pm
Nathan, men have spent years thinking of ways to control women. Cultural, laws, and even religion has played into the scheme.

DebraDec 11 2006 5:19pm
Debra's right

wise guyDec 13 2006 10:17am
Shelly, that's really cool. Did your husband start working out to try to catch up to you? Do you think he can do it?

curiousDec 17 2006 7:14am
Curious, he works out but not like me. He lacks the endurance and maybe the dedication. In addition to that I think I have better muscle quality, I build muscle better and have more endurance before my muscles tire out both at exercise and armwrestling. LIke I said he can beat me at times but he must get the win right away or I'll tire him out and beat him. If we continue to armwrestle, I'll just start defeating him. Our muscles are about the same size but I do get pumped bigger it seems and my muscles are harder. I like it, it turns me on to challenge his strength and even prove stronger sometimes.

ShellyDec 18 2006 5:32pm
12-23-2006

AnonymousDec 23 2006 5:56am
shelly, do you think you could beat him up..if he came home drunk and violent? armwrestling is mostly technique.

lanceJan 03 2007 10:28am
Lance, I've been adding two workouts. One is an aerobic workout with all boxing moves and the other is called "super sizing" your muscles. It uses combos of heavy weights with full contractions held at the end of reps and lighter higher reps until failure. I think I could beat him because of my conditioning, both my muscle strength and enduance is greater than his. I don't see that happening. Right now my muscles are bigger than his and seeing that puts him in his place. I'm getting more muscular and he isn't and he sees this. Our muscles are no longer the same in size and I'm stronger and he knows it. We compared, mine are bigger.

ShellyJan 13 2007 3:15pm
January 14, 2007

AnonymousJan 14 2007 11:59am
I remember trying to catch up to my sister in muscle. She was a competitive swimmer from an early age and became muscular. We would flex and compare our muscles a lot and as we grew up she began to out muscle me more and more. That would lead to wrestling and such. I never became stronger than her growing up and she's still athletic and strong. I really think that she had differnt muscles compared to mine and a heavy percent of fast twitch muscle fiber. weather from exercise or from genetics, she did have superior muscle. Swimming built her chest and shoulders though. Witnessing my sister's muscles becoming bigger than mine was etched into my mind and I'm more attracted to stronger women because of that.

LenardJan 27 2007 11:08am
I've tried to catch up to my wife, she's a real gym rat and has over the course of a few years developed her muscles. I had thought that women really couldn't build up their muscles without steriods or something. She's much stronger than I am now. She's added a few inches to her biceps, calves, and thighs resulting in her becoming bigger than me. I do exercise but I'm unable to build much size, I've toned way up and become stronger but it's very slow for me. I'll admitt that she has better muscles or genetics. She has muscle in places I really don't have anything and in those areas she is bulding it up. Such as inside calves and bicep peaks that seem to add "muscle bulges" on top of her alread large muscle. It's very interesting to see this even though I envy her body.

RobJan 28 2007 11:49am
Rob you are not alone. Not long after my wife joined a gym she compared her biceps with mine and they had grown a lot! Her's were a little bigger than mine. Since that time she has built her body up and has a little muscle size over me. Her muscles are harder than mine and we've started to play wrestle, not easy for me to gain an advantage as she wears me out and pins me most of the time. One thing I've noticed is she has longer muscles than I do and the circumference is increasing steady. I've ready that length is an advantage in adding size and strength.

AnonymousJan 28 2007 11:58am
1-30-07

AnonymousJan 30 2007 7:36pm
#100 - 2/5/07

Date UpdateFeb 05 2007 11:04pm
If you guys work out as much as your wives, you'll get bigger, stronger muscles, because you have much more testosterone.

maleFeb 07 2007 10:33am
shelly, has your fitness/strength changedyour relationship?

lanceFeb 10 2007 3:01pm
I would say the opposite happened. I use to wrestle with a girlfriend (now ex-girlfriend) of mine about 6-7 years ago. I was stronger than her in the arms / upper body. There was no question that her legs were stronger than mine. (She had years of Jazz/Tap & Ballet dancing, swimming, biking, and good genetics.) I could hold her off for a time with my arms, but once she started using her legs, she had a clear advantage. We started working out at the gym together. The amount of weight & reps we could do in the beginning only proved the theory above: My arms were stronger - Her legs were stronger. As time went on we both saw improvements, however, she was about even with me in upper body strength and much stronger than me in leg strength. Toward the end of our relationship it was clear that her upper body was stronger than mine and I was nowhere near a match for her lower body. We would still wrestle, if you could call it that. It would be more accurate to say that she would easily outmuscle me until she was satisfied that I had given up or submitted. We had fun doing that but had grown apart in other ways which resulted in the end of our relationship.

ChrisFeb 21 2007 5:15pm
Chris, I've had a very similar experience as your's with my wife. However we are still together. I WAS under the impression that women had a disadvantage at strength improvements or building muscles but that apparantley isn't the case, at least not always.

AnonymousFeb 21 2007 5:43pm
Me and my wife started to go to the gym together 2 years ago, I lifted more than her to start with but she did more reps than me. Like many other experiences told on the boards her legs were stronger than mine already from the start. None of us thought that she could develop bigger muscles than me. We both thought that the testoserone would do the trick for me and that I should bulk up. After a year of working out 3 days a week we realized that my wife was the one that got bigger. Her thighs and shoulders got very big and after a while so were her biceps and triceps. I lost weight and she gained. After another year she is now bigger than me all over and a lot stronger. Our relationship has changed a bit, she is sort of protective and always wants to carry the heavy stuff. She wants me to sit in her lap, she sometimes lifts me up and carries me to bed, she can almost be a bit motherly. I didn't like these changes from the start but she is a very loving person and I have come to like my "unmanly" role more and more. I will stop going to the gym and just play tennis, I am a bit fed up working out with weights without getting much bigger or stronger. So the difference between us will be even bigger. So women can really grew big muscles, I know a lot about that now.

SverreFeb 23 2007 4:46am
My wife started going to the gym to loose weight. She lost fat but not weight, she actually gained but within a year you could see her muscles followed by seeing them change shape and increase in size. She now has bigger muscles than I do everywhere. I don't spend the time in the gym as she does but I too hadn't a clue that this would happen and I have worked out harder as a result but haven't been able to "catch up" at all. This is embarrising somewhat, we had compared our muscles in the mirror the other day flexing and she is more muscular. She's stronger than I am and widened that strength difference in the last few monsths even after I had stepped it up. Wrestling is no contest now and she loves to wrestle me now that she knows she is stronger.

DougFeb 24 2007 10:24am
She even wrote in her workout log that she was comparing her muscles to mine, making comments about her becoming stronger than me and how her muscles were developing more by comparison. "comparing our legs proves his muscles are much weaker" "My upper body is gaining on his fast" "my shoulders are stronger than his and soon I'll prove it" " to my delite I can see that my muscles are developing much faster as I am now comparing with Doug" "his upper body isn't as strong as mine" "I can now see for a fact that I have superior muscles" so on and so on.

DougFeb 24 2007 10:43am
Somebody spammed this poll too with "I don't' care" votes. Don't care was near the bottom and suddenly it got about 80 votes. Why??

irritatedMar 08 2007 9:38am
Doug, this is my experience and is something like yours. I've been married for about three years and not long after we married, my wife started working out with me. She had always had broad shoulders from swimming in her school days. It was obvious that she was getting stronger and even more muscular but the other day in the mirror next to me it was visible that she was more muscular than me. I had come home from work and she had been working out during the day, something I just now discovered. She has been exercising while I was working and with me again in the evenings. Now she has compared other strength and proven to be far stronger in her legs and stronger in her upper body, something she had hid for a while. After the mirror incident we sat down and compared biceps,calves, and thighs flexing and feeling our muscles and now I admitted that she has out muscled me. A tape measure was the final proof of her bigger muscles with 2 1/2" in her thighs 1" in her calves and 1/2" in her biceps. Her biceps measured 15 1/4" flexed after she had worked out. Since it took me so long to just get in shape or add any size, I doubt I could catch up any time soon as she mentioned that this is just the beginning and that she is now gaining more muscle and strength than when she started. In the last six months or so her muscles became much bigger it seems and of course now showing me her strength too. It is possible that some women have muscles that some men can't compete with. It would seem that she has muscle development at roughly twice the rate that I have just by how she has built her muscles faster.

MarkMar 17 2007 9:19am
3-28-07

AnonymousMar 28 2007 5:57am
Mark, you should stop weightlifting and switch to aerobics only, go on a low calorie, low protien diet, and lose a lot of weight and muscle, then she'll be even bigger and stronger compared to you!

AnonymousMar 29 2007 6:08am
I guess some guys are just unhealthy weak pansy and there nothing anybody can do about it? I thing it cause by a mental condition.

RoyMar 29 2007 12:50pm
I'm not interested in a woman that is as big as me or bigger. And I'm not going to fight them to see if I could beat them.

JackApr 10 2007 11:12pm
#0115 - (Wed.) 4/11/07

UpdateApr 10 2007 11:13pm
That one clown who keeps spamming "I don't care" must really care about not caring - LOL. He probably tried to catch up to a stronger girl but never could match her!

spamwatcherApr 22 2007 10:43am
5-1-07

AnonymousMay 01 2007 9:15pm
I've been married for only three years. My wife started working out with me not long after we married and has gained more muscle and strength compared to myself. I'm 5'9" and 145 lbs. She is 5'7" and is now at almost 170 lbs. of hard muscle. I used to think that girls were weaker no matter what, even when they workout, now I know that I was ignorant to some facts and began to look into this subject as a result of my wife's athleticism. They have stronger muscles pound for pound when several things are considered such as muscular endurance and obviously have the ability to build up their muscles in size and strength to sometimes even surpass men. I recently read that all things are equal between male and female muscle such as the ratio of fast-slow fiber type but women have greater endurance and flexability in the muscles.

MikeMay 05 2007 10:08am
Exercising with my wife has taught me that I have to actually workout more than her in order to keep ahead of her in both strength and muscularity. When she obviously started gaining on me she said "your're the man you should workout more" because she had closed the gap on me. That doesn't make sense, you would think a girl would have to workout harder in order to try to keep up. Her muscles are filling out and bulging in places I do not even have muscle.

RobertMay 13 2007 11:31am
My highschool sweetheart came home from collage on break and I found her to be more muscular than me. She plays softball and gained about twenty pounds of muscle and lost fat. Her leg muscles are HUGE and her arms have become bigger than mine. When she told me about her workouts with weights it's little wonder she's so strong now. When we compared biceps, shoulders, and our backs it was embarrassing for me. I've never had muscles like she does now. She always had strong legs but now they're incredible and several inches larger than mine, ALL MUSCLE.

DLMay 20 2007 12:01pm
Lucky fella! Have you wrestled her?

AnonymousJun 01 2007 12:51pm
No I haven't wrestled her yet but she chalenged me to a strange strength test that I quickly lost. Sitting on a bench on my back pourch, she asked me to try a test of strength. She had us sit back to back and lock arms. She said "now start pulling". First off she tightened her arms around mine until her biceps started squashing mine! We started pulling with our backs against each other while she continued to tighten her arms on my upper arms. I realized then that she really hadn't started to pull full strength but as she tightened her arms I could feel her muscles sqeezing my biceps until they tingled and burned and started to get numb. Now she started pulling hard and could have pulled my arms out of the sockets! She had my arms pulled and stretched back and I had to let out a "I give up" before something happened. She is so strong now I can only imagine what she could have done if she went all out like that on my upper body. I'm sore from just that! I still haven't wrestled her! How much workouts could I do to even try to match her? It's like her muscles are made out of a different muscle tissue compared to mine, much harder in fact.

DLJun 03 2007 9:21am
Try a stomach punching contest--take turns punching each other's stomach until one of you can't go on. Even strong girls often have soft abs and males can almost always punch harder than females.

AnonymousJun 03 2007 10:26am
Talk about a strange test of strength. My wife is a regular at going to the gym and her muscles are evidence. Last weekend we bought a truck load of landscaping rock. The rocks were from about 1 foot in diameter to a few feet, some had to be move with a hand truck we use for the trash barrel. Anyway she challenged me to a test of strength by lifting rocks. I was on the loosing end at this in no time. One rock shapped like a slab about 3 feet long about 1 1/2 foot wide and maybe almost a foot thick she lifted! I do not know what it weighed but she squatted down all the way and lifted the rock up to her chest and lifted with her legs until standing and then pressed it over her head! She though it to the lawn and put a deep dent in the grass and asked me to lift it. I did the same by squatting and got it to my mid section but couldn't lift with my legs so I tried to press it up and again couldn't lift it! That rock was so heavy I'm guessing between 150 and 200 lbs. She also out-lifted me with one arm on some rocks about 1 foot across, maybe 80 lbs? In the past few years her muscles have developed bigger and you can see they are thicker than mine. I really have never had a test of strength with her until this and now she is pumped up about proving she's stronger in other ways.

RonJun 03 2007 11:57am
Robin Norwood wrote "Women Who Love Too Much." Someone should write "Women Who Lift Too Much."

AnonymousJun 19 2007 12:28pm
Wow, she looks powerful. I'm impressed

Surprised maleJun 24 2007 2:37pm
Wow - most guys would have to work out a lot to catch up to her!! Who is she? What does she look like from the front?

AnonymousJun 26 2007 5:30am
Naaaaaaaaah, they'd just have to take the same steroids. And she's not facing the camera because you would see how masculanized her face was from the drug abuse.

Reality CheckJun 29 2007 7:12am
7-18-07

AnonymousJul 18 2007 9:48am
7-18-07

AnonymousJul 18 2007 9:53am
My big sister was a strong girl who could always overpower me. When I was 13 I was catching up to her size, but she was still much stronger. I didn't like that. I started exercising to get stronger than her. Then she started exercising too. She thought she could stay stronger than me. But by my 14th birthday I was much stronger.

strong kidSep 17 2007 11:21am
10-17-07

AnonymousOct 17 2007 8:13am
This subject seems funny but my sister is totally buffed with muscles like a jock. This is from school sports and gym weight lifting. When she flexes with just a braw on she is all muscles and this is embarrassing for me who is skinny and older by one year. Because of her I do push ups and all.

BrettDec 27 2007 3:56pm
My younger sister beat me at arm wrestling and again at wrestling in front of our parents. She has bigger muscles but our dad bought weights and a bench so I can work out but my sister is working out as often as she can. So how long will it take me to beat her if she is working out with weights too? I'm thin and she is built more with big muscles and stronger. I would just like to beat her and be stronger because she now wrestles me down and starts squeezing me until I can't breath. She'll do this when our parents aren't around and lift weights and tell me to just watch her work out I have to wait until she isn't there and it seems like she is doing more and more work outs. I can't lift as much and she laughs and tells me to watch her and she continues until she's tired and it takes her one or two hours. Anyway I try to spend more time lifting.

DaleDec 29 2007 4:50pm
Brett, Dale how old are you guys and your sisters? Its not that hard for a girl to be stronger while a boy is 14 or less, but if you train as hard as they do, you'll catch them.

curiousDec 29 2007 10:01pm
Brett and Dale, what states do you live in?

AnonymousDec 30 2007 4:20pm
Interesting.

AnonymousJan 07 2008 2:05pm
1-14-08

AnonymousJan 13 2008 6:44pm
My younger sister is definitely more stronger than me. Not only is she taller, but she is also powerful. I have to admit that I am intimidated by her. In fact, I once challenged her to an arm wrestling match just out of curiousity. I was no match for her, I am afraid. I really feel quite humiliated because of this. Physically, I am a bit skinny. I am 5'8". My sister is 5'10". She is betetr than me in most outdoor activities, and certainly has more stamina. Of course, the fact that she is 2 inches taller than me helps her cause, but being the elder brother, and more importantly, being a guy, I really should be stronger than her, isnt it?

ShaunJan 14 2008 8:01am
My younger sister is definitely more stronger than me. Not only is she taller, but she is also powerful. I have to admit that I am intimidated by her. In fact, I once challenged her to an arm wrestling match just out of curiousity. I was no match for her, I am afraid. I really feel quite humiliated because of this. Physically, I am a bit skinny. I am 5'8". My sister is 5'10". She is betetr than me in most outdoor activities, and certainly has more stamina. Of course, the fact that she is 2 inches taller than me helps her cause, but being the elder brother, and more importantly, being a guy, I really should be stronger than her, isnt it?

ShaunJan 14 2008 8:05am
Shaun, I don't blame you for being intimidated, but what are the ages of you and your sister? Also, what are your respective weights?

somethingaboutastrongwoman@yahoo.comJan 20 2008 8:40pm
I am 24. My sister is 22. I weigh 133 pounds. My sister weighs 140 pounds. There isnt much of a difference in our respective weights. But it amazes me how much more stronger than me she is. She kicked my ass in tennis, and after that I have never been able to look upon her as my little sister. At the risk of sounding like a sissy, I have to admit here that I would be slightly afraid of her....

ShaunJan 21 2008 5:21am
I'm amazed at my sister's muscles, espesually her legs being so much more muscular than my own but even her shoulders and arms. This is from weight training at school for sports. The other day she compared her legs to mine and her muscles look huge by comparison! I mentioned her arms because they are bigger too. Like I said this most likely wouldn't be the case if it were not for her envolment in sports and weight lifting. As far as catching up? It looks like her legs are on steriods even though I know this to be not true. The muscles balloon when she flexes, making my skinny muscles seem like a joke! I workout but with little effect so It would take a lot for me to match what she has naturally.

SteveFeb 02 2008 10:55pm
Above is the "before" video. Click on it several times and the youtube page will open up with links to the "after" video.

amusedMar 19 2008 7:00am
5/11/08

AnonymousMay 10 2008 11:17pm
In America, I've noticed that women are slowly feminizing men. In the 1970's it was considered "manly" or "macho" for men to have a hairy chest. Now a hairy chest seems to provoke snickers and sneers and comments like "he needs to get his chest waxed". Manicures, facials, waxing, dieting, all these things that only women used to do, men are now doing at the encouragement of women. The next step is for women to demand and only choose men who are softer and more slender than they are.

AnonymousMay 29 2008 7:06am
Don't worry. Even a weak male of age 15 or more is stronger than any girl or woman who does not work out. Some women do work out and they can become much stronger than the average man, but most women still choose to be either plump, weak couch potatoes or skinny, weak stick figures with too much make-up and padded bras.

alexJun 01 2008 8:36am
There is a great advantage choosing smaller weaker men, you don't have to fear abuse. You very seldom hear about women abusing their smaller men, I guess that some men are abused and that they are ashamed to admit that their women can beat them up but in general I think that us women are nicer. Any thoughts?

GavaJun 02 2008 12:44am
Maybe women are usually nicer because they're usually weaker. I know a woman who practices karate every day. She's strong and her body is hard as a rock. When she gets mad she starts showing her muscles and her moves and threatens to beat up the person she's mad at. So far the threats have worked and I think the other person gives in without her hitting them. She could probably beat up a lot of guys if it came to that.

billJul 05 2008 9:24am
My sister works out almost every day and I'm now in a position of trying to catch up to her because she is now more muscular then me and stronger. Her legs are huge and it seems useless for me to match her legs much less beat her and now her shoulders have grown a lot and are wider than mine. It's embarrising for me especially in front of our parents as our mother has us flex and compare with our mother making lots of comments on how my sister is built so much better. We have a home gym and as time goes by I see little change in me while her muscles develop more and more. From behind she looks almost like a strong man in her back and shoulders and her legs can't fit most of her pants anymore. If somebody thinks it's easy to beat any girl every time they don't have a clue. This has been going on for over two years and I've gained no ground on her as a matter of fact it's gone the other way with her being even bigger than me now.

LarryAug 09 2008 1:43pm
Dear Larry, you should leave your family and move some place far away. Don't come back until you are stronger than your sister. If you do not listen to me, you may be beat up and humiliated.

Dear LarryAug 11 2008 10:06pm
Athlete says sports steroids changed him from woman to man: www.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/europe/08/11/sexchange.athlete/index.html

AnonymousAug 14 2008 7:57pm
Larry, what are the ages of you and your sister? Also, what are your respective heights and weights? Does she like being stronger than you? What has changed in your relationship with her? Are you more submissive and yielding to her?

somethingaboutastrongwoman@yahoo.comAug 18 2008 11:10am
3rd september 2008

AnonymousSep 03 2008 5:55am
My sister if muscular from school sports and more muscular than me. I weight lifting but she's stronger right now. Her muscles look round and are bigger. It's been that way for a year and a half. She's wrestled me down to the floor and pined me. before.

DanSep 06 2008 8:02am
China Daily Updated: 2008-08-16 09:20 Novel training methods, unprecedented scientific insight, or simply hard work and a talent pool of 1.3 billion people? Weightlifting experts from around the world are striving to uncover the secret behind the success of China, which was expected to win one-third of the 15 Olympic weightlifting gold medals on offer but has already beaten that target. Chinese coaches and athletes say there is no secret - just a tough training routine and the determination to win. Cao Lei of China sets an Olympic record of 128kg in the women's 75kg Group A weightlifting snatch competition at the Beijing 2008 Olympic Games August 15, 2008. "Weightlifting depends on strength and so our women weightlifters have fully understood the importance of strength and pick up gold medals," said Olympic champion Cao Lei. Cao brought home China's seventh weightlifting gold of the Games in the 75kg class Friday. Hours later, in the men's 85kg contest, Lu Yong won the eighth. China's female lifters have been especially impressive, not only because they have won every competition they entered but also because of their style. Cao and her compatriot Chen Xiexia appeared to lift the barbell with astonishing ease and assurance that contrasted with their groaning, straining challengers. At the Olympics, Chen lifted 13kg more, Cao 16kg more, and gold medalist Liu Chunhong, 31kg more than their closest rival - this in a sport where there is often just a single kilogram between gold and silver. Some speculate that China has unlocked a new technique which allows women in particular to achieve unprecedented results. Andrew Charniga, an international weightlifting federation official, has watched the Chinese women train and suspects the secret could be in a long warm-up. While a long warm-up can exhaust men, it possibly has the opposite effect on women, allowing them to take on higher and higher loads. "It's a training method that is unique. They think women can do more loading than a man," he said.

AnonymousSep 06 2008 8:33am
After several years of marriage, and being stronger than my wife, it was hard to accept that she was now the muscle in the family. She began a workout and weight routine about 5 yrs. ago and is now awesome in her strength. My arms are still bigger than hers, but her definition and hardness are far superior to mine, full flexed she has 15" biceps and they are amazing. Her thighs are a rock hard 24" and calves are 17". I have now begun a program to keep up with her, but, as we get older, I seem to lose stamina and can't keep up. I am proud of my strong wife and love the fact that she is my "muscle goddess".

TomOct 19 2008 12:01am
Tom, I have a similar relationship with my girlfriend who I got started in weight workouts. She has far greater physical endurance, her muscular endurance is greater than mine. This has excelerated her strength and now it's starting to show. Her legs have out muscled mine by a longshot and her upper body is as strong as mine. She doesn't look muscular until she flexes and I can see she's as big or bigger than me. I have lost at wrestling to her more and more, which tells me that she's getting stronger compared to me. I'm focusing on holding my own against her without much success. She now realizes this and works out pretty hard! Crazy huh?

BillOct 26 2008 6:04pm
11-4-08

AnonymousNov 04 2008 10:43pm
I met my wife 12 years ago. We were than in our late 20's. She had an athletic background as a swimmer and I was a long distance runner. She had this wide swimmers shoulders and I had this typical slim, runner's body type. After dating for a while we one night started some playful wrestling. I realized soon that my girlfriend was a lot stronger than me, she just played not using her full power while I was using everything I had and still got pinned again and again. I was embarrassed and didn't like this one bit. She thought I was stupid, that she knew already from the start that she was stronger than me and that I had realized that as well. As I said, I didn't takt this well at all. So I hired a personal trainer and started to work out 3 times a week, to build muscle and strength. The thing is that my body didn't respond the way I had hoped. I got stronger and stronger but from a very low level I realized since a majority of the women at the gym seemed to be stronger than me. After a year of hard work outs I challenged my girlfriend to an armwrestling match. She smiled at me and asked me if I really wanted this. Sure, I wanted that, I wanted to win more than anything. When I had counted to three my girlfriend slammed my right arm down in a flash. She told me to use two arms, frustrated as I was I used both my arms and still couldn't pin her arm. I was very frustrated. My girlfriend than told me to come over to her side of the table, she pulled me down in her lap and told me to take it easy. She told me she was born strong, that years of swimming and working out with weights had made her even stronger, she also told me that she had met few men that could match her strength. She continued to say that she loved my slim but hard body and that I just should accept the fact that I could never get stronger than her. What I didn't know was that she worked out as well, three mornings a week at her company gym. She flexed her biceps and told me to feel them, they were baseball sized and just rock hard. Then she told me to flex, my biceps was equally hard but almost half the size of hers. It all ended with her standing up with me in her arms, carried me to bed and made love to me. After that day I have come to like our role reversal. We wrestle for fun but I can never win, not even if we start with me on top. I just have to take that, and it's not too bad, not at all.

Jogging manNov 13 2008 12:20am
Jogging man, I would love to be in your place. I am not a big guy but the athletic big women I have met go for bigger and stronger guys, very few like men they can beat with one arm behind their back. I really can't complain since I have met a girl that is actually stronger than me but quite a bit smaller. This relationship just ended though when she met a stronger guy.

Still lookingNov 25 2008 1:01am
I am in a situation of trying to catch up to my girlfriend. We are both about 5'9" and have weight trained together for almost three years. She was always a little stocky but now has lost the fat and is more muscular than me. The only thing I figure is that she has a high amount of fast twitch muscle fiber, giving her an advantage in size & strength.

AnonymousNov 26 2008 2:45am
12/23/08

AnonymousDec 23 2008 2:17pm
What a cool poll. Usually it is the other way around with the girl worked toward the guys level. In my case, my boyfriend works hard but will never catch up to my rock hard body. I have 14.5" biceps, 25" thighs and 16.5" calves. Rock hard and extremely fit. He loves for me to flex for him and I love when he worships my body. It's my incentive to keep workin' and his incentive to try to keep up!

ChelseaJan 01 2009 7:48pm
I met this girl some time ago. 185cm and about 90 kgs. I know, a very big girl but nevertheless very beautiful. I am 187cm and on a good day about 75 kgs. We came home to my flat after a party, rather drunk. I slapped her behind when she took her shoes off. She told me that that was the misstake of my life. She came at me like an express train, slammed me into the wall so I lost my breath. She threw me over her shoulder and started to spank me while I was hanging there helpless. She continued to carry me into my bedroom where she threw me on my bed, undressed me despite me struggling than sat down on my bed and draped me over her sturdy thighs. She than spanked me hard a couple of times and told me that I should do as she said in the future. She turned me around in her lap, lifted me up in her arms and folded me double, started to squeeze me just to show me how strong she was. I was totally shocked at her strength. She then showed me a much nicer side to her personality, she told me that it was good for me to know what should happen if I got out of line. And it worked. Most of the time we have a great sweat relationship but if I do anything to annoy her she looks very angry, flexer her arms and I will do as she tells me, I know she can beat the poo out of me anytime. I don't know what to do. I love her, I even think it is great to have a strong girlfriend but I don't want to be scare of her.

DominatedJan 12 2009 4:02am
I have always been a slim man, 182 cm and around 70 kgs. My wife is 171 cm and 75-76 kgs, powerfully built and strong. We used to playwrestle when we were younger and I never won but neither did she. She always stopped when she was about to pin me. Over the years she has been keeping herself in good shape with swimming once a week and aerobics once a week. I jog to work every day. About two years ago I decided to get stronger and add some muscle, I have always felt that if my wife wanted to she could beat me up as easy as that. She is not a violent person but when we were intimite she moved me around as if I weighed nothing. My goal was to add 5-7 kgs of muscle. I worked out twice a week and I got stronger, unfortunately from a rather low level, but I got stronger. But I didn't gain any weight. My body got harder yes, but I still looked like a pencil when I looked in the mirror. After a year of work outs I one evening challenged my wife to an armwrestling match. She looked at my and asked me if I was sure about that. I wanted to show her that I was the one with the muscle in the family. She took of her sweather and fixed her hair, I couldn't help watching her biceps jump up and down when she did that. I realized that I had to go for an early pin. When I had counted to three I put all my strength and bodyweight behind my move and got her halfway down before it was stop. I kept on pushing with everything I had but her arm didn't move an inch. She then started to move our arms to an upright position and then in a slow but steady move pinned me to the table. I was very upset and straight away wanted a match with our left arms as well. This time I let her take the initiativ, not a good idea at all since she just pressed my arm down in a second. This was actually the first time we armwrestled. I realized how much stronger she must have been before I started to work out. She asked me if I wanted to wrestle her as well to see who was really stronger. I could see she enjoyed the situation. The wrestling match was no success for me. For the first time she really used her strength and the first fall was over in less than a minute, she just had me in a headlock and took me down, straddled me and pinned me. Next fall I dove after her legs to trip her. She force my head between her thighs and again took us down to the floor and then squeezed me until I had to give. I was so frustrated and wanted to show her but for every fall I got weaker and at the end I was lying on the floor with no power left. She lay down beside me and said that she had understood that I wanted to catch up with her in strenght but that she that she new this would never happen. She was born strong. She also told me that she every day after I had left home did push ups and sit ups to stay strong. She said I had to accept that she was stronger and that she loved me anyway. I got less upset when she showed me that her strong body could be very feminine and soft as well. We have after this evening wrestled for fun as foreplay and I have accepted that I will never be stronger than her. Sorry for the long posting but I had to get this out.

RickyJan 14 2009 11:47pm
Awesome Ricky. Enjoy what you have found

MikeJan 29 2009 3:53am
It is obvious that 99% of the polls on this web site about strong or muscular women are created by just 1 or 2 people, which is frightening if you consider how many polls have been created about those topics. The people who create those polls must be very sick people with no life an no girlfriend so they just fantasize all day long on this web site.

AnonymousMar 17 2009 7:01pm
I have come across a couple of crushingly strong non-BB women in my life, who overwhelmed me in playwrestling like I was a child, so this sort of thing is not complete fantasy. There used to be some good discussions on this site, especially one of the original polls, 'The Stronger Sex Physically'. A lot of the posts must have been fantasies, but you felt many were not. Now, you can spot the same spelling mistakes from the same 2-3 people.... Are there any real women here, I wonder? Probably as much chance of that as finding a man on a forum discussing embroidery or childminding!

SteveJun 21 2009 2:59am
Steve, what were your respective heights and weights? Describe the matches.

AnonymousJul 08 2009 6:30pm
matched strength with my girlfriend about a year ago after being together for 6 months. We were both surprised when she was quite a bit stronger than me when it came to different kinds of wrestling, arms, legs and full wrestling as well as the mercy game. I was very embarrassed and she was amused. She is heavier than me but not by mutch. She has never been to a gym but been working out doing pushups, situps, pull ups and playing soccer. I have also been playing soccer but not the way my girlfriend do. After loosing I straight away signed up for a gym and started to work out twice a week. I got stronger but had difficulties in adding a lot of muscle. I didn't tell my girlfriend about the work outs. Six months later I challenged my girlfriend again. I felt a lot stronger and my body was harder, she must have noticed. She laughed and looked amused when she placed her big right arm on the kitchen table. I gave everything I had to slam her arm down but nothing happened. She then put her shoulder behind her arm and pressed my arm to the table in a slow but powerful movement. The same with the left arm. I then challenged her to a wrestling match, best out of three falls. I now realized that she was stronger than six months before and when I was pinned under her the second time without a chance to get up I asked her if she had been working out as well since I had become so much stronger. She laughed and said that she knew I had been working out, she added that her soccer team had added weight lifting to their workouts. She alos said that she hadn't been doing her best when we matched strength the first time. 75% of her strength had been enough to beat me. When she saw my embarrassement she added that she loved me anyway and that she was just born strong and big boned while I had another body type. We are now working out together, I am getting stronger but she builds muscle faster than me and the difference in strength is today even bigger. I am all right with that now.

Stronger but not strong enoughNov 04 2009 11:33pm
Looks like Beth will have to start working out now.

AnonymousJan 26 2010 4:12pm
wHO IS bETH?

CAPS LOCKFeb 18 2010 9:02am
My younger sister's shoulders are 3" wider than mine from competitive swimming. She now works out with weights and I'm watching her muscles get bigger and bigger. I can't match her and find muscle building slow or not at all. I'm 15 and she is 14. Is there anything else I can do to catch up or will she be bigger because of her wider shoulders. Her biceps are 14 3/4" Mine are 12 1/2" so I have 2 1/4" to make up and I gain nothing in months. Her legs seem huge next to mine. I feel like I can never be as muscular as her because little has changed with workouts.

MikeMay 22 2010 10:49am
The worst feeling I ever had is when my younger sister proved to be much stronger using my own weights. Months after my father bought me a weight set and bench my sister proved she was stronger in front of our father. She had been weight lifting at school for sports. The maximum weight on my set was 135 lbs. I'm ablt to do one rep with 110 lbs. My sister did ten with that weight and then did five with all the weight on at 135 lbs. My father was angry with me and looked on with shame at me. My mother laughed as my sister flexed in front of me. Why do we as boys have to be looked down on when we try our best and a girl turns out to be stronger? My mother said I will share my weights with my sister and has made it her hobby of comparing our strength.

JimSep 17 2010 4:52pm
I need some advice please. My 14 year old son is skinny while my 13 year old daughter is quite husky and muscular. I bought my sone a wight set and put in on the pattio but he rolls his eyes and reluctantly does little exercis. My daughter is all exited about it and starts hitting the weights! I do not understand this. I have always thought boys have testosterone and it makes them more agressive, more muscular, and stronger... yet it is my daughter that has all these qualities. What should I do? I wish that my sosn was more like my daughter. She works out until she is tired and sweaty and flexes for me, not my son. He drags his ass to the bench does little and if I don't keep on him he doesn't do anything. Go figure? My daughter acts like a boy with testosterone running through her blood while he's not even interested in his physique. What can I do to spark something in him? My daughter is bigger and stronger than my son and it concerns me. I give little encouragement to her and lots to him. Should I reverse that? Anything?

Concerned dadSep 18 2010 8:18pm
Concerned dad, have him wrestle his sister. Let her beat him bad to wake him up. Instruct your daughter to beat him and why. She'll probibly understand. Shw your approval of her strength, muscles, and the fact that she is superior to him in those areas. He will respond when he sees the attention she is getting by becoming stronger it is pleasing you. He will see that attention and most likely change his ways. I would turn her lose on him if your attention to your daughter's strength doesn't work.

AnonymousSep 18 2010 8:26pm
I sgree, give attention and admiration to the girl if that fails have her use her strength on him by wrestling. That should enlighten the boy.

AnonymousSep 19 2010 12:14pm
"AGREE" I ment to say.

AnonymousSep 19 2010 12:15pm
The Department of Kinesiology and Applied Physiology, at the University of Colorado in Boulder in 2000 found that female muscle had 75% more endurance over male muscle. The study found that women outlasted men by an average of 75 percent during muscle contractions under a load. But rather than some kind of motivational effect, the study found the difference was due to some feature of the muscles. In studies carried out at the University of Jyvaskyla in Finland, for example, 10 male and nine female strength athletes (powerlifters and body-builders) performed 20 maximal squat lifts, with three minutes of recovery between each lift. After the 20 lifts, the fatigued leg muscles of both males and females had lost about 20-24% of their maximal strength. However, various indicators of muscular power favoured the females. For one thing, the force-time curve  an indicator of muscles ability to contract powerfully and quickly  changed negatively by 28% in the males over the course of the workout but dropped by only 19% in the females. Females also recovered from the 20-lift session more quickly. One hour after the workout, female lifters leg muscles could generate about 92% as much force as before the session, whereas male muscles were just 79% as strong. Why was the fatigue greater and recovery slower in males? Part of the problem seemed to be that the male lifters nervous systems became less responsive over the course of the workout. From the first to the 20 lift, activation of leg muscles by nerve cells fell by 20-25% in males but held fairly steady in females. While its not clear why male nerve activation should deteriorate more quickly, it is clear that females lose less of their muscular power during heavy-duty resistance training and seem to recover more rapidly once a tough session is over. (Neuromuscular Fatigue and Recovery in Male and Female Athletes during Heavy Resistance Exercise, International Journal of Sports Medicine, vol. 14(2), pp. 53-59, 1993)

AnonymousSep 27 2010 5:44pm
My sister is very athletic and used to play lots of sports. She was a lot stronger than me when we were younger and she used to lord it over me. I got tired of being the weakling so I started lifting weights. I quickly gained size and strength. She thought she could still dominate me, but when she tried I made her submit. Boys rule!

strongdudeNov 21 2010 11:32am
Boys rule, Girls drool, huh?

an intelligent life formNov 26 2010 4:10pm
I got a wake up call this weekend. I am 27 and my sister is 28 and while neither of us have been in shape, I have always been stronger than her. My sister has been working out and lost a ton of weight. I don't work out at all. We ended up arm wrestling and she killed me. It wasn't even close. So, for the time being (and probably for the forseable future, if not forever), my sister is much stronger than me. My sister can now bench 150 for reps. The max I ever benched for reps was around 110. Today, I struggled with 95. It looks like the roles may have reversed for good. She is the stronger sibling and I am the weaker one.

AnonymousDec 15 2010 3:06pm
Anonymous, what are your espective heights and weights? Are her arms bigger than yours? How do you feel about her being so much stronger than you? Do you feel a bit subservient to her? Does she like being stronger than you and does she tease you about it?

somethingaboutastrongwoman@yahoo.comJan 03 2011 10:40am
I am 6 even and she is 5'7. I weigh 175 and she weighs about 140. Our arms are about the same size, however her arms are toned and muscular, while my are flabby. I still cannot believe that she is that much stronger than me. I mean, she took my max and blew it away. When I was younger, I tried really hard but never got passed 110. Well, she is lifting 40 pounds more than that and still making gains. Nothing makes you feel like the weaker sex more than being absolutely dominated by your sister. Of course she is loving it, and she pretty much made fun of me the whole holiday.

AnonymousJan 03 2011 5:31pm
I have a simalar situation with my sister. She showed me that she could curl a five gallon bucket of water ten times! With one arm! I found out that the water weighs just over 40 lbs. I was unable to curl the bucket of water at all. After that we armwrestled and she beat me so easy. I felt ashamed as I wasn't strong enough and I could finally curl the bucket of water at half full. I'm 15 years old and she is younger by one year. She is weight lifting in school for basketball. I to lift weights but she is still stronger and has muscles that are big. My legs are thin and her's bulge with big muscles and even her shoulders and arms have developed more than mine. I feel like the weaker sex now. I would really like to have her muscles. I can't understand how this is happening.

MikeJan 07 2011 11:02am
had a very embarrasing thing happening to me some years ago, and then it happened again just recently. Me and my girlfriend (now wife) went to a party where she ended up armwrestling the other women. She was strong and beat all but one, a really big woman that most of the men would never challenge. One of the ladies asked my girlfriend if she was stronger than me, her boyfriend since I looked kind of skinny and thin. She smiled and said that she didn't know but she thought that she could take me rather easily, she didn't take me for my muscles. This of course annoyed me some and we soon were sitting opposite each other with our hands tightly gripping each others. At the count of three I got a shock, my girlfriends arm didn't budge at all. I was really struggling and got beat root red when she decided to end my misery and slowly pushed my arm to the table. The other girls screamed and soon started to challeng me and other guys. I refused, being bested by my girlfriend was enough for me. The big woman that had been able to win against my gf beat all the guys rather easily and my girlfriend armrestled a few more of the guys and won 2 out of 3. I was silent and sulking a bit when we went back home, she understood that I had diffculties taking being weaker than her and she didn't mock me or say anything. After this evening I secretely join a gym and started to work out, first three times a week but with an increasing work load soon down to twice and once a week. But I kept on and got stronger. About 1,5 years ago we were invited for dinnet to the big, strong lady I mentioned. After dinner she reminded us about the armwrestling evening where she was the champ. Her husband didn't seem to have a problem with that, he just said that he married one heck of a strong woman. The hostess asked us if my now wife could still beat me. We told her that we hadn't matched strength since that evening but now when I had been working out I fancied my chanses. My wife looked at me and was surprised that I had been working out, she knew that I was sinewy and harder but thought that was mainly because of me getting older. The table was cleared and we had our second armwrestling match since getting together. I looked at my wife's bare arm, it suddenly looked bigger and stronger than before and I had second thoughts but couldn't really back out. I was then totally embarrassed, my wife slammed first my stronger right arm to the table, then my left. She told me she hadn't used more than perhaps 50-60% of her strength the first time we armwrestled and that she also worked out at the company gym twice a week. I didn't know that she did. She then challenged the hostess but had to accept defeat after a long struggle. Me and the host looked at each other and started to laugh, here we were two men watching our stronger wifes armwrestling. Since that evening I have just accepted that I cannot catch up with my wife, she is more solidly built, has better genes to get muscles and I am just a slim man. Have lost to a few more women since and alos beaten a couple of both men and women. After the last armwrestling match with my wife we have started to wrestle as well. We don't have any kids so this is just good fun to play and also a great forplay.

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ASHESH GHOSEJan 28 2011 11:31am
When I was in high school, I used to work out at a local gym. I'm 5'10" and weighed 180lbs at the time, and I saw this girl who was maybe 5'4" or 5'5" using the same same weight as I did for dumbbell flys. I immediately started adding weight to that routine until I was using double the weight she did.

Formerly AshamedFeb 09 2011 6:42am
@Formerly Ashamed, was she as strong as you at first? Did she try to keep up when you started adding weight? I knew a kid who started working out to beat a girl who was stronger & tougher than him. She didn't even try to keep up as he went heavier.

donnieFeb 15 2011 9:46pm
donnie - From what I saw, she stayed with her original weight. I don't know if she was as strong as me, or if I was just too light in selecting weights.

Formerly AshamedMar 20 2011 4:49pm
I workout with my girlfriend, the most embarrassing thing is she has gotten more muscular than me and stronger. Working out harder has not helped because she is gaining faster than me. I have thin muscles no matter how hard I work. Recently in bed physical dominance has started with nothing I say stops her from wrestling and pinning me and using her strength on me. How do I "CATCH UP" I'd like to know? My biceps are 12 1/2" when her's are 15" and twice as strong. I have never been as strong as her so workouts have not put me ahead that's a fact. This happened after I asked her if she wanted to workout, now I can't stop her!

Really help!Apr 01 2011 5:19pm
Rick, what did you think would be the result when you compared muscles with the girl your same age?

AnonymousApr 03 2011 7:28pm
I admitt I became a fan of her first youtube page and as I was working out I wanted to see how I could beat her but her muscles are really bigger than mine. Her page went away and I was disapointed and wanted to outmuscle her. About one month later her new page came up. Now Her biceps are so big! I'm to embarrassed to admitt it on her fan sight but now when I compare she is so much bigger! When she flexes her biceps have gotten bigger, I try to compare but ose badly. I'm working out more to build more muscle.

RickApr 03 2011 7:34pm
I just didn't think she would keep getting bigger than me because I was also working out. I see she has gained more size than me even with my working out. No matter. I'll workout more.

RickApr 03 2011 7:39pm
TRY to build your muscles bigger than her! Can you do those pull ups? If not she will continue to outmuscle you.

AnonymousApr 03 2011 7:41pm
Rick, it will take a lot of workouts to match that girl but over time you'll see the results.

AnonymousApr 04 2011 12:32pm
WOW! I can't believe how big those girl's muscles get when they flex! I wish my muscles expanded that much! My bicep just shortens when I flex and doesn't expand much with no peak compared to those girls.

RobApr 04 2011 12:44pm
You have to WORK to catch up or stay ahead now. I know, my girlfreind is very competitive and strong.

AnonymousApr 05 2011 12:27pm
Rick - this girl has better muscles than almost any 13 year old boy, so don't feel bad.

AnonymousApr 05 2011 10:20pm
She looks thin but after her workout she flexes such a big muscle! Mine is so much smaller. I read and understand about hormones and how I have "testosterone" and how it should give me the advantage but her muscles are way bigger than mine! How do girls build bigger muscles than boys? Without testosterone she still has way bigger muscles? How? I workout too. I am jealous of her bigger muscles. I'd like to see that my muscles are bigger because I am a boy but her biceps look like a bodybuilder compared to mine.

RickApr 19 2011 6:58pm
Rick, everyone has different genetic potential and matures at a different rate. That awesomevideos26 girl has a rare combination of superb genetics and hard work. But she's not going to get much better. At 13, your testosterone may not have fully kicked in, but your muscles are bathed in it every day. It may take a year or two, but you'11 pass her. <br><br> I knew a girl who was the strongest, toughest kid in her class up through 6th grade. She loved to wrestle, fight, and play rough games with boys. Most of the boys were wimps compared to her and she didn't let them forget it. In 9th grade she was trying to show off and picked a fight with one of those wimps. He beat her almost as badly as she used to beat him.

wize oneApr 20 2011 4:37pm
Kortney is impressive compared to adult men, and is a nearly impossible target for a kid.

wize oneApr 20 2011 4:39pm
I have a question. Im' 14 years old 5'6" at 130 lbs. My sister is a cheerleader and 16 years old. She is 5'9" and 175 lbs. She lifts 100 lb girls over her head every day plus weight lifting in the gym! Her biceps are 14.5" calves are 16" and her thighs are 24" and she overhead lifts my body in the air! I workout but I see little changes in my muscles while my sister looks very much like a bodybuider. My biceps are 12" calves 13" and thighs 18" so I want to know is it possible for me to gain that much muscle and gain 3" height to match my sister when I'm 16? She flexes and gets huge! I just want to know if I can gain 45 lbs of muscle in 1.5 years and develop bigger muscles than my sister? I need to gain 3" in my calves 6" in my thighs and 2.5" in my biceps. How much work would it take and can it be done? I would like to be stronger and more muscular than my sister but I enjoy looking at and feeling her big muscles. It's a turn on when girls have muscles but I want to be stronger than my sister! It's like her body makes steroids or something because she is rock hard and muscular.

KevMay 08 2011 3:48pm
Kev, many factors come into play here. One is how physically developed you are at your current age. How long is your soft penis and also your erect penis? How thick? This matters.

AnonymousMay 09 2011 11:56am
i am 14 i have a family friend who is 12 and a girl the age gap is 2 and a half years exactly. she has been taller than me since she was 7 ( and i was 9) one day about a year ago she was bosting she was taller than me i pushed her and as i did said yes but your weak as a baby she didnt budge she wretled me to the floor and dominated me then MADE me get on her shoulders she kept doing squats and i was embarrased now though i find it a turn on when a woman is dominate

alexMay 10 2011 5:24am
Nice pix Kev. Most guys wouldn't even have the time and willpower to work out enough to catch up to those strong girls - lol.

AnonymousMay 11 2011 5:45am
I will admitt it that my sisters big muscles turn me on but I still want to have bigger muscles and strength than my sister! She actually likes me to rub skin oil on her muscles while she flexes! She like me to rub her muscles at night and she flexes asking me to feel them in my room at night. I get emarrassed because I get turned on. My sister knows it too! Even relaxed her muscles are so firm and flexed are like rock. Mine are kind of mushy and not at all hard like my sister. I get turned on but don't like being smaller! She is like a bodybuilder to feel! I want her muscles though.

KevMay 12 2011 11:26pm
Kortney Olson looks like the girl next door, only with more muscle than the boy next door. I wonder how she would do in a fight with a guy.

curiousMay 25 2011 7:37am
She would beat most boys to a pulp. I've watched a video of her hitting punching bags with both skill and unbelievable power!

AnonymousMay 28 2011 12:09pm
When Kortney gets done with a workout, her muscles are HUGE! She is literally stronger than 90% of men in the gym!

AnonymousMay 28 2011 12:12pm
Kortney muscle are really huge! Girls who are working out hard are getting bigger everyday. I remember when I saw the first picture of Monica Mollica a few years ago. She was athletic and defined with some nice thighs. But after a few years when I saw her picture I could not believe my eyes. She is built like a brick, enormous muscles, her thighs are simply phenomenal. I did not see picture of anyone that has biggest thighs (even men I think cannot compare to her thighs). She can legpress 1250 pounds but I have read sometimes ago an interview with her friend who said that she can legpress even more. Wonder how it would feel to be trapped between her steel hard enormous thighs. She can easily break ribs, without sweating. Girl today are just getting to strong and I think that a lot of men are afraid of that. Some others are enjoying that.

FBB muscle loverJun 16 2011 5:05am
It's the truth. I see girls who strength train for sports and now have bigger muscles than me. I watched a girl at our school gym do leg presses for sets with 750 lbs and od 12 reps! I'm embarrassed because I can not leg press more than 450 lbs.

DeanJun 23 2011 2:40pm
More and more girls have bigger muscles than most boys and rule in leg strength!

AnonymousJun 23 2011 2:42pm
WOW! I watched Kortney workout in a video and her biceps get bigger and bigger as she exercises! Her muscles were huge when she finished her sets! I wish my muscles responded like that!

BobJun 23 2011 2:44pm
The sexy brute you are referring to is Nicole Pfeutzenreuter. she is a German bodybuilder with a magnificent physique.

an intelligent life formJul 03 2011 4:31pm
being german helps a lot. german girls are the strongest

AnonymousJul 27 2011 9:35pm
It does seem like a lot of German and Eastern European women are naturally sturdy and can develop incredible strength when they work out.

AnonymousJul 28 2011 3:11pm
I keep seeing more and more girls with very broad shoulders, wider than most boys. Girls are getting much more musclular as well. I recenly watched a girl do twice as many pull-ups compared to what I thought was a well muscled young man as he did 16 pull-ups only to watch in a bit of shock as this strong girl did 32 and didn't even slow down until after 25! She made it look easy while it looked like work for the guy! Go figure? Are they getting stronger than us?

MarcJul 31 2011 11:47pm
I ment to say weak. I can do five pullups. She does a bunch more! Just wondering.

BradAug 01 2011 2:50pm
Brad, you are probably average. She is quite strong for her age!

AnonymousAug 01 2011 4:32pm
Brad, I'll bet there aren't many 13 year old boys as strong as her. Are you going to work out to see if you can catch up?

dudeAug 02 2011 5:32pm
I'm doing workouts to catch up. Why would my biceps quit when curling? The 10 lbs starts to feel like 20 lbs after about 25 reps! But I'm not giving up! I do think the girl is very strong but also pretty good looking! It made me kind of angry when I couldn't do 40. How does a girl get that strong? Her muscles are really big when she flexes! I have a weight set now and I'll get a pull up bar. I tried at the park down the street to do the same pull ups. I have to work on that. I do like to compare with her and didn't know she would be stronger thinking a girl would not be stronger.

BradAug 02 2011 9:49pm
Brad, you are not weak but she is stronger. You have the right attitude and keep working out and you'll catch up for sure. Respect her strength as a girl as you work for that strength and it pays off over time.

AnonymousAug 02 2011 9:54pm
Brad, that girl has a lot of natural ability and she works out to build those big, strong muscles. She's built enough endurance that she can probably lift 10 pound weights all day. Even though you're a boy, you can't expect to catch up without working hard. I know a girl like her who was stronger and tougher than every boy in her class when she was 13. She was always ready to prove it by armwrestling, wrestling or fighting. Boys who thought they were tougher than any girl got pretty humiliated when she beat them-lol. But don't lose heart. At your age, boys gain a big advantage. Their muscles are bathed in testosterone, so they build muscle and strength faster than girls. One of the boys that my friend could easily beat couldn't stand being so badly owned by a girl. He started working out. It took a while, but he kept at it and his confidence grew as he got stronger. One day he challenged her to armwrestle. She laughed because he used to be so much weaker, but he had the last laugh. He beat her right handed and left handed. They flexed and his muscles looked bigger for the first time. She couldn't quite believe it and challenged him to wrestle. It was a long, hard match but he was in control for most of it. Finally he managed to pin her and she gave in and admitted that he was stronger.

dudeAug 03 2011 6:31am
I was wondering why some girls have bigger muscles than boys who have testosterone? I see some teenage girls with bigger muscles than some men especially legs. So I wonder how this is when boys or men have testosterone?

BradAug 03 2011 11:59pm
Brad, muscle size and strength is determined by many things, including genetics, nutrition, and exercise. Testosterone levels are one of these things. Puberty is the time that testosterone levels get much higher in boys. Before puberty the muscles of girls and boys are, on average, about the same size and strength. Boys are generally a tiny bit stronger, but there is a lot of individual difference. Its not hard to find a girl who is more muscular or stronger than most boys her age. Going through puberty, boys get their growth spurt and their testosterone. This means that their muscles rapidly get bigger and stronger. At age 12, the average boy is about the same as a girl, but at age 15, he's got about twice the muscle of a girl. This natural difference in strength is more in the upper body than in the lower body. Its biology - everyone has to walk and women need the strength to walk while pregnant. So you might see lots of girls with muscular legs and skinny arms and boys with more muscular arms, but slim legs. But there is still a lot of individual variation. A few girls are naturally muscular and some girls work out to build muscle. These girls can build bigger, stronger muscles than boys who do not work out. So testosterone alone does not guarantee muscular superiority for boys/men. This is especially true for the legs. I overheard a college girl telling a friend that she gave up inline skating because it was making her legs bulk up with too much muscle and she wanted thin legs - funny. How is your progress in catching up to that youtube muscular girl? Could you give updates?

dudeAug 04 2011 6:26am
I can't understand how a girl could have bigger muscles than her brother if both have the same genes? I have trouble getting past about 25-30 with 10 lbs when my muscles fail. I did it with her and get mad when this happens! I watch her keep going! I thought I'd try the same speed as her but it didn't matter. I get mad but like to watch her workout anyway and try to beat her.

BradAug 05 2011 1:05am
Why would a girl have much bigger muscles than her brother? If they have the same genetics? The boy has testosterone but the girl has bigger muscles? In the same family even when the girl is younger. Just asking.

BradAug 05 2011 1:10am
I read a website talking about the difference between strength and endurance. Several men said their max curls with 10 lbs was 40-50 reps. some men 30-40 reps. The girl is strong!

AnonymousAug 05 2011 1:31am
Brad, the only people with the same genes are identical twins. Otherwise siblings each have a different mix of their parents' genes. A sister can get more of the genes for strength than her brother. Even so, its unusual for a girl to have much bigger muscles than an older brother, and even more rare if the brother is 15 or older. For that to happen, she would probably have to be in strenuous sports like gymnastics while he was a skinny nerd. The other thing is that girls generally carry more fat under their skin than boys. Some girls can look like they have big muscles because their fat adds thickness. Other girls look fat, but it turns out that they have big frames and big muscles, with a layer of fat over it all. The girl in the video is quite lean and does have big muscles.

dudeAug 05 2011 6:04am
Brad, how long have you been trying to match the girl in the video? Have you been regularly practicing to build up your endurance? What changes are happening? How many reps did you get before failing the first time? How many after a week? 2 weeks? Do your muscles feel different? Do you see them changing? If you work out for endurance every other day (your muscles need recovery time), you should begin to see gains. She didn't get to where she is overnight and neither will you, but you can do it, just like that kid I mentioned.

dudeAug 05 2011 6:16am
Thanks for making sense out that question. I've tried for about a month in a half and went from about 20 reps to 25 in a month and the I made it to 28. I stopped for 4 days and I went back down to 24 reps. I'm trying every other day because every day my muscles actually lost strength! Tired I guess! I tried concentration curls and found it harder to do because I can not cheat I think. That way my arm is fixed and I found I was pulling my arms back making it more easy. I can do 22 concentration curls. It makes me feel she is twice as strong. She could have done more than 40 because she just stopped and then shows off by flexing. It just makes me want to work harder but I found out I have to rest a day. I can't believe her pull ups!

BradAug 05 2011 12:56pm
I wasn't being honest about my pull ups from embarrassment. I got my chin above the bar once and the next was eye level and the third the bar was above my head. lower and lower with each try. I must work on that and buy my own pull up bar. I tried to do muscle ups with rings at the park. My friend had to boost me up lifting my legs until I was pushing on the rings with my triceps. My collar bones and chest made a loud crack and pop and the my shoulders made cracking sounds while I sank! Now it just hurts my shoulders and collar bones! I feel like a weakling and hate it. I'm ok but sore. I know I need to workout now.

BradAug 05 2011 2:19pm
Brad, I know you're frustrated, but you are not a weakling. A lot of boys your age wouldn't do as well as you. And very few boys are even close to the awesomevideos girl - I'll bet she'd own every boy in your class pretty easily. So be smart about your workouts and you'll catch up to her. You've already seen improvements and I hope you've learned that if you push yourself too hard too fast, you'll actually injure yourself and set yourself back. What would that girl think if she found out that a boy was struggling so hard to beat her that he hurt himself? If you're worried about the girl angle, test yourself against the athletic girls in your class or your neighborhood. I'll bet you can soon catch up to stronger girls around you and then you can move on to the bigger challenge of awesomegirl.

dudeAug 05 2011 10:05pm
Numerous studies have shown women have a greater resistance to fatigue than men; therefore, women are able to sustain continuous and intermittent muscle contractions at low to moderate intensities longer than men (Clark et al. 2003; Fulco et al. 2001; Hunter & Enoka 2001; Hunter et al. 2004; Russ et al. 2008; Russ & Kent-Braun 2003; Thompson et al. 2007; Wust et al. 2008; Yoon et al. 2007).

AnonymousAug 05 2011 10:40pm
I recently read an article on why so many boys now have smaller weak muscles. Soy food products are like estrogens and reduce a boy's testosterone levels way down! Or while a boy's testosterone levels would normally kick in after puberty it doesn't happen! Studies showed boys had smaller weaker muscles that did not develop as would normally. Study showed boys eating more and more soy products.

AnonymousAug 05 2011 10:58pm
Recent research into girls testosterone levels shows a continuing overall increase. Saliva testosterone level tests of girls in sports (soccer) show an average 50% increase during muscular exercise. Some girls as high as 100% increase.

TiaAug 06 2011 3:46pm
About 10% of teenage girls ovaries make too much testosterone. It is a condition (PCOS) on the rise! Somethings wrong when boys testosterone levels are declining and girls climbing.

AnonymousAug 06 2011 4:06pm
Brad, don't worry about the alarming messages above. If you work out in a smart and consistent way, you will catch up and surpass awesomegirl. You'll also be ahead of the other boys.

dudeAug 07 2011 8:07pm
Brad, don't worry about the alarming messages above. If you work out in a smart and consistent way, you will catch up and surpass awesomegirl. You'll also be ahead of the other boys.

dudeAug 07 2011 8:27pm
Brad, stay away from soy foods and stop drinking everything from plastic bottles. If not, prepare to watch the girls get bigger and stronger than you! You have noticed girls your age can be both stronger and more muscular, this is normal at your age but think about that. It's the best time for her to workout! Her body is performing better and we now know that's when girls should train. They become even bigger and stronger than the normal advantage you already see. Girls sports boosts their strength a lot. In the future, you will have to train hard in order to have any strength advantage over girls.

AnonymousAug 07 2011 11:18pm
Those young women are strong and hot, but they're not schoolgirls. It would be hard to find any 13 year old who could match them, because they have had more years to grow, mature and get strong.

AnonymousAug 20 2011 6:51am
test 8-21-11

AnonymousAug 20 2011 7:51am
When I started college, I began TaeKwonDo classes. The instructors daughter (age 18) was a 3rd degree Black Belt and had the body of a gymnast. I was never able to beat her in pushups or pullups.

Not weak, but also not as strong as *that* girlAug 31 2011 6:19pm
When I started college, I began TaeKwonDo classes. The instructors daughter (age 18) was a 3rd degree Black Belt and had the body of a gymnast. I was never able to beat her in pushups or pullups.

Not weak, but also not as strong as *that* girlAug 31 2011 6:19pm
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AnonymousOct 19 2011 11:18am
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AnonymousNov 06 2011 7:33am
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AnonymousNov 11 2011 5:33am
I remember back in the early 1980s Time magazine had an article about women who were lifting weights. One woman they interviewed said that she dated two guys, and both of them started lifting weights after seeing her naked body.

Formerly AshamedNov 19 2011 5:27pm
Been reading these polls for awhile about strong muscular bigger women etc. Think most are very bogus myself. Am a professional white male, 50 years old 5'10" 190, athletic not a bodybuilder tho. Am here by challenging any big strong muscular woman, bodybuilder, powerlifter, whatever, bigger the better, stronger the better. Challenge is to any female who will come meet me here in oklahoma, and literally use her full size, strength, muscle and power to lift me, crush me with full strength, lift, carry, throw me around the room like a rag doll, bodyslam etc, without regard to injury to me. Seriously using ALL her full size, power and muscle on me for 2 hours. No mercy asked, will sign injury waiver as well or release of liabilities to you etc. Any women takers, all you have to do is contact me at sjsh99@lycos.com and put likelike challenge in your subject line. Cash prize if you come to do this and claim it is 2500 dollars. Will make a nice Christmas if any really tough or muscular women exist in real life besides these stupid polls. I am extemely serious. Lets see if any really huge big strong or muscular powerful women exist, or if they just talk talk talk. sjsh99@lycos.com

sjsh99@lycos.comDec 01 2011 7:21am
Been reading these polls for awhile about strong muscular bigger women etc. Think most are very bogus myself. Am a professional white male, 50 years old 5'10" 190, athletic not a bodybuilder tho. Am here by challenging any big strong muscular woman, bodybuilder, powerlifter, whatever, bigger the better, stronger the better. Challenge is to any female who will come meet me here in oklahoma, and literally use her full size, strength, muscle and power to lift me, crush me with full strength, lift, carry, throw me around the room like a rag doll, bodyslam etc, without regard to injury to me. Seriously using ALL her full size, power and muscle on me for 2 hours. No mercy asked, will sign injury waiver as well or release of liabilities to you etc. Any women takers, all you have to do is contact me at sjsh99@lycos.com and put likelike challenge in your subject line. Cash prize if you come to do this and claim it is 2500 dollars. Will make a nice Christmas if any really tough or muscular women exist in real life besides these stupid polls. I am extemely serious. Lets see if any really huge big strong or muscular powerful women exist, or if they just talk talk talk. sjsh99@lycos.com

sjsh99Dec 01 2011 7:22am
Been reading these polls for awhile about strong muscular bigger women etc. Think most are very bogus myself. Am a professional white male, 50 years old 5'10" 190, athletic not a bodybuilder tho. Am here by challenging any big strong muscular woman, bodybuilder, powerlifter, whatever, bigger the better, stronger the better. Challenge is to any female who will come meet me here in oklahoma, and literally use her full size, strength, muscle and power to lift me, crush me with full strength, lift, carry, throw me around the room like a rag doll, bodyslam etc, without regard to injury to me. Seriously using ALL her full size, power and muscle on me for 2 hours. No mercy asked, will sign injury waiver as well or release of liabilities to you etc. Any women takers, all you have to do is contact me at sjsh99@lycos.com and put likelike challenge in your subject line. Cash prize if you come to do this and claim it is 2500 dollars. Will make a nice Christmas if any really tough or muscular women exist in real life besides these stupid polls. I am extemely serious. Lets see if any really huge big strong or muscular powerful women exist, or if they just talk talk talk. sjsh99@lycos.com

sjsh99Dec 01 2011 11:53am
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AnonymousOct 06 2012 8:37am
Those crossfit girls can beat just about any guy.

AnonymousOct 19 2012 1:05pm
A girl at school beat me at arm wrestling this year. She was muscular and the strongest girl in out class, but was shocked that she beat me because she was only a girl. I started working out and practicing arm wrestling with my big brother. We arm wrestled again on the last day of school. She was teasing me before we started, but she was the one to be a shocked loser this time!

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zBimRkqxIhKQwnpOct 24 2013 4:29am
I always thought men were stronger. On average they are, but that's because of society. When girls started to lift for sports with the guys, their pains were actually far greater at my school. Its not crazy for a girl to squat 315 at my school. On top of average strength going up, a lot of the girls put on muscle faster too. it's pretty simple, if you let them lift, they are stronger

JoeNov 02 2013 11:50am
When I met my girlfriend she was so gorgeous that when we went out other guys would wolf whistle and even try to chat her up, ignoring me. I decided I better join a gym and get in really good shape to keep her. After about 2 months she started to compliment me on my new dynamism and enthusiasm. She was tall and slim and never liked sport or exercise, but after what she saw in me she decided to join a gym for one month to see if exercise could do the same for her. At first she tried aerobics but after 3 or 4 sessions she thought it was very boring and didn't do anything for her. She asked for something a bit more physically demanding and was told circuit training might be more desirable for her requirements. This she found far more invigorating, although she could hardly do any push Ups or pull Ups to begin with. She told me she was embarrassed at not being able to do these and hadn't realised how weak she was. I told her that it wasn't surprising if she had never liked exercise, and never done these before. She asked me to armwrestle her to see how much stronger than her I was and told me not to go easy on her because she wanted to see the difference. I thought this was rather silly and let her know, but we did it anyway and I won within a second with both arms with practically no resistance. She complimented me again, but she seemed annoyed at her own lack of strength. I asked her why if she had never liked exercise before was she suddenly so upset at her weakness. She couldn't think why except that after seeing the improvement in me she wanted the same for herself. Over the next few weeks she started doing push Ups at home and lifting the heaviest objects she could, and gradually she started to get stronger. She decided to renew her gym membership for 6 months to see if she could reach her goals by then. I asked her what her goals were and she said to be able to do 20 push Ups and 10 pull Ups. She also kept asking me to armwrestle her every month to see her progress against me. As I was still working out to improve myself I didn't think she would notice any difference, but the third month we armwrestled I definately felt a bit more resistance from both her arms, and it took more than 2 seconds to beat her. I could see she was happy at her progress. As she was so tall and slim (like a catwalk model), and so unfit before, she knew any progress would be slow to begin with. By the time her 6 month gym membership was up she could do nearly 20 pushups and about 8 pullups. She still wasn't satisfied and got a one year gym membership. The stronger she got the more she liked it, and the stronger she wanted to get. She started flexing her arms in front of the mirror and got quite excited when she saw biceps appearing. The armwrestles continued and it was now taking me nearly 5 seconds to win right handed and over 6 seconds left handed. She was like a kid with a new toy and every milestone seemed to get her really excited. At the gym she had started lifting weights and excitedly informed me of her progress whenever she did more reps or increased the weights she used on a particular exercise. Her body now started to fill out, and her tall willowy figure began to evolve into a more athletic looking physique. I was proud of her new strength and development, as I thought she looked even more beautiful with her new more physical look. I was hoping she was now close to her new desired look. She now spent more time at the gym than I did (an hour and a half, compared to my one hour), and all she seemed to do was lift weights. The first time she got a pump while lifting she was ecstatic, and her sex drive got higher and higher, to the point where she was exhausting me. Almost every week she was getting stronger in some exercise, and loving every second of it. After a year and 4 months of going to the gym, it happened, it took me over 10 seconds to beat her with my strongest arm. She was virtually doing cartwheels. She then said I wonder how long it will be until it takes 20, 30, 40 second or a minute. I asked her if she was now close to what she wanted to achieve physically. She said I've no idea, I never thought in a million years I would like this but now l'm hooked and want to see how strong and fit I can get. This was a bit of a shock to me as I thought she looked fantastic as she was now, a truly gorgeous girl with a beautiful body. Months passed and she really stepped up her workout intensity and I started to find I had to really struggle to beat her armwrestling. She always congratulated me when I won, but got more and more excited as the matches got closer. She also got prouder and prouder of her developing body and wore less and less clothing around the house, and was seemingly always flexing and admiring herself in the mirror. She even started compairing her biceps with mine, and could now do a lat spread. Now it started to dawn on me that at this rate she would at some point be stronger than me if I wasn't careful, and I wasn't sure if I could handle that and what it would mean for our relationship. I also started to feel a bit intimidated by her, and that I better keep ahead of her or I would regret it for some reason. Also sex was starting to be more like a wrestling match with her always asking, demanding or fighting to be on top. Sorry for such a long post, but to tell it like it happened I didn't want to miss out anything. More to follow.

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AnonymousApr 24 2014 7:22am
Sorry for my delay in posting again. I was waiting for a response to see if anyone still followed this thread but missed the message above. I have also had my hands full with my girlfriend, as you can imagine. Anyway, as you might expect she continued to work out harder and harder, and longer and longer, until she was in the gym 2 hours a day 6 days per week. She now started boasting how much she could lift and how many reps, and her whole body started to explode with muscle. She also eat like a horse. After 2 years of her gym attending it was taking me over 20 seconds to beat her right handed arm wrestling, although I was now trying very hard to stay ahead of her by working out myself as hard as I could. Then one day I was having trouble getting the lid off a jar and gave up after a struggle and put it down. She immediately wanted to have a go and picked it up and started twisting with all her strength. After about 10 seconds she wrenched it loose and unscrewed it. The look of satisfaction on her face was almost more than I could bear. I couldn't believe it, and I don't think she could either at first. Then the realisation set in and she made a light hearted quip about her poor weak boyfriend. She then shocked me further by saying that as I was so weak and helpless, maybe I better move in with her for my own safety, so that she could protect me. I laughed a little nervously and said aren't I supposed to ask you that ? She said she wasn't sure if I was ever going to ask her. After much discussion, in which I was adamant that we would share everything equally, including ownership of the property, I agreed to move in with her. She had just had a big promotion at work and now earned twice as much as I did, but my pride made me want to pay my way in every department. So I moved in and everything was going well. With me paying half the bills my gf now had plenty of spare cash, so guess what she did with it. She turned one of the rooms into a fully equiped home gym. When it was set up I got a chance to see her workout for the first time. I was truly shocked at her intensity, I had never imagined how dedicated she was. The size of weights and amount of reps really was mind blowing. I realised immediately that I might be stronger than her, but her endurance was way beyond mine. For this reason I couldn't work out while she was around or this would be obvious to her. I would have to go to the gym or workout at home when she was out. I was also in a panic about her remorseless gaining on me and decided I really had to go flat out to keep ahead of her. This wouldn't be easy though, with my hours of work. I worked longer hours than her, and at the end of work I was invariably drained. Still, the thought of being weaker than my gf was too much to bear. I embarked on a hyper intensive period of workouts, and for a while it worked, and my arm wrestling victories got slightly easier. My gf did not take this well as she had been getting really close to me by this point, but I managed to change my winning time from 30seconds to 25seconds on average. However all this effort meant I was shattered at work and eventually had to take time off (at the managers request) to recover. You might think that being at home I would be able to use the home gym, but I was in no state to have any serious workout, my mind was in turmoil. My gf was killing me. Although I loved her to death, she was out earning me, and very nearly out lifting me (or was if you go by number of reps). We had been discussing making our relationship more concrete (getting married), which was also weighing heavy on my mind. I tried to imagine us in a few years time. Either I would be permanently exhausted trying to maintain my slight strength advantage or, or what ? I shuddered to think about being married to this gorgeous girl who earned far more than I, with better prospects, and being stronger than me. What kind of life would that be ? Well I saw my doctor about my stress, and she advised a long rest. I saw a psychiatrist who told me to think about what I wanted out of life, and to follow that path, and cross any bridges when I came to them, but to not over think my future or any hazards which may be on the horizon. So I decided I needed a change of job. I was becoming embarrassed by my gf's superior earnings and was sure I could do better so I quit. I started looking for less demanding higher paying posts. These were few and far between in my field, and I ended up taking a job stacking shelves in a supermarket to fill in until something better came up. This actually was quite therapeutic, as my brain was totally relieved of stress and the constant lifting kept me in good shape. After about 10 months I started to think how demeaning this was and again started looking for something more suitable to my talents. I had always thought with my superior intellect to my gf I would end up with a better paid job than her, but when a vacancy came up in her company, which was better pay than any job I'd had previously, I had to apply. I got the job, but I would be working directly under my gf, by two ranks. She was my bosses boss. By now I was working out hard again, but my gf was now very difficult to beat in our continuing arm wrestles. It now took me about one minute 25 seconds to beat her right handed and nearly two minutes with the left. When I got the job in her company she got down on one knee and proposed. I accepted, still sure that she was the only girl for me. Again she had made the first move and I had agreed to it. I must be more assertive I told myself, not quite realising the connotations of her proposing. At work I struggled to please my boss, who I'm sure reported my every fault or failing to her boss (my gf). Sometimes in the evening at home my gf would make some joke about something I had done and how she would make sure I got things right in future. Then in bed she would rib me and mockingly threaten me, before climbing on top of me (her rightful position she claimed), and riding me to exhaustion. She had celebrated with some champagne when it had taken me over a minute to beat her r/h arm wrestling, now it was up to two minutes and very nearly a stalemate. She invited all her girlfriends round to show them how difficult it was for me to beat her. She must have been keeping them updated with events. We sat down at the table right handed and started to strain for all we were worth. The girls, being girls, screamed encouragement to my gf and unbelievably my arm was being pushed backwards for the first time ever. My gf must be getting really pumped from her screaming supporters. I had to concentrate harder than ever before to stop her making further progress. With an almighty effort I started to inch her arm backwards. I couldn't lose in front of her friends that would be too humiliating for words. Painfully slowly I inched her arm back towards the table in the deafening din, but my gf refused to give in, and as her arm got to within about 2 inches of the table my progress came to a halt. She must have dug deep into her reserves as I once again felt my arm being held and then forced back again. The bellowing from her friends reached new heights as I felt my arm being jolted backwards. I desperately applied every ounce of pressure I had as sweat poured off both of us. I glanced up to see my gf looking straight at me with grim determination on her face, with the hint of a smirk. I felt my arm jolt back another inch, and now I could clearly see the signs of a smirk spreading across my gorgeous gf's face. Then amazingly, in this screaming bear pit of attrition I heard her whisper, "got you now darling, haven't I". At this I flinched, could this actually be happening. What kind of a nightmare was this ? I put absolutely everything into trying to force her arm back, and managed to move it a fraction. I went all out to slam her arm down, but no further movement. Then I felt my arm going backwards, I couldn't believe it. I looked down at my gf's arm, to see what looked like a huge bicep contracting and expanding to an amazing size. I looked back up to my gf who was now openly grinning as I felt my arm being forced back remorselessly. My arm started to shake with exhaustion as my gf continued to force it back and down until I felt the dreaded reality of my knuckles touching the table. The girls went wild and started dancing and singing, while my gf just held my hand pinned to the table, wanting to savour the moment. This earth shattering, universe tilting moment.

X MachoguySep 21 2014 2:41pm
Amazing story! And its the 21st century - it's ok for a woman to be stronger or make more money than her man. Enjoy it!

AnonymousNov 01 2014 5:55am
Well don't keep us in suspense X Machoguy. What's been happening since?

AnonymousDec 02 2014 11:25am
X Machoguy reporting - After my total embarrassment at losing the arm wrestle I had to put up with every insult imaginable from my gf's friends as they all got drunk and told me women would soon rule the world and our time was up as the ruling sex. In bed that night my gf comforted me and said she loved me more than ever as her beta boyfriend, which she soon amended to beaten. She said she was obviously meant to be an Alpha woman and had only just discovered it. She then mounted me and tried to arouse me, but I was in no mood for her advances. She made me kiss her "superior" biceps as she called them, and then her other muscles. She insisted no one other than her girlfriends would know she had beaten me, as she had made them promise not to tell anyone. I wasn't sure they would keep quiet, but this made me relieved somewhat. I also wondered what life would be like married to this amazon, and could I handle it. She was still the most gorgeous girl I had ever known, with a great personality, sense of humour etc. As I was thinking all this my gf continued to try to arouse me. She then kissed me and forced her tongue into my mouth as far as she could forcing my tongue back so that I nearly choked on it. She kept thrusting her tongue in and out totally overpowering my tongue with hers. After ages she finally withdrew and exclaimed "ha, it seems like every part of my body is stronger than yours beta boy, or should I say beaten boy". She then realised I was getting aroused and impaled herself on me, and proceeded to ravish me. It actually felt like she was penetrating me as she slammed up and down with incredible force. Needless to say I didn't last very long much to her displeasure. So what did she do ? Sit on my face of course, ordering me to service her properly. She must have stayed there for over an hour until she had several climaxes and was finally satisfied. After this we were both soon in a very deep sleep, but I think it was a far more satisfying sleep for her. From this point onwards she decided to train me into not climaxing too soon, which involved punishment if I did. I was not going to let her walk all over me, I decided to train as hard as I possibly could to get back my physical superiority, and over the next few weeks I put absolutely everything into my workouts. Now my gf insisted on arm wrestling everyday, and we had many very close matches, but she won every time right or left handed. To my incredulity she started to win more easily after a month and I began to resign myself to being the weaker partner in the relationship, as much as I hated the thought of this. She continued to make all the moves in the bedroom, and her high sex drive seemed to drain me of all my energy. She wanted to see how many times I could climax in one night and I was powerless to stop her. If my performance was not up to her expectations she would wrestle me until she had me lying face down across her thighs and then spank me viciously. This was her punishment. She also started to make all of the decisions we made. If we disagreed on something we arm wrestled or wrestled to decide the outcome, which she always won, although only just on many occasions. It seemed like her will power was just too strong, no matter how much I wanted to have my way. At work I found a kind of refuge as I started to make a good impression, and I knew my gf could not do anything to criticize me if I did a good job. My boss told her how well I was doing, and at home my gf said " who's a good little teachers pet then, are you after my job ? Ha ha". Then she gave me a present for my good work. It was a pair of white stockings. I was furious and speechless. She didn't expect me to wear those, surely they were for her. "Put these on honey", she cooed. "If you're such a good secretary you should wear these". I spluttered "you must be joking, there is no way I will ever wear those or any item of female clothing". She then began to lecture me on the stronger and higher earner wearing the trousers and their partner doing as they were told. Did I want a very severe spanking ? I had no choice and she helped me into them, as I didn't have a clue how to put them on or adjust the straps. She told me how cute I looked in them, but that I needed to shave my legs. While you are doing your legs you might as well do the rest of your body she told me, I hate body hair. That was news to me, but what could I do. She helped me shave the areas I couldn't reach, and was very complimentary when we had finished. We went to bed with me wearing the stockings and she seemed more aroused than ever, she couldn't keep her hands off me. To my surprise I even enjoyed it myself and we had the best night ever together. The next day I left for work wearing the stockings under my trousers. What was happening to me ?

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Most Of the women at my gym are much stronger than I am. I don't think I will ever be able to catch up, But I might have their strengths and do the best I can.

Nick Jan 12 2015 11:32am
X machoguy is a pathetic wimp, but if i had a girlfriend like that - wow what a challenge.

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In High School I stared lifting weights when I saw one of my *younger* sister's friends flex her biceps, and it was a very strong and well defined one. Later I found out that even though I was working out regularly, she was bench pressing as much as me!

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My younger sister is a very good swimmer and swims for the school team. They make her lift weights to improve her performance and stamina. She hated it at first because she didn't want muscles, but eventually grew to like it. Recently she started challenging me to arm wrestles quite regularly. At first i could beat her fairly comfortably, but she soon caught up with me and can now beat me. She is 15 and I am 17, and it is very embarrasing, especially as she boasts about it to everyone, and keps flexing her biceps in my face and laughing at me. I have started to lift weights but can't seem to catch her up. Girls today are way too fit.

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