The Problem: OK, so my GF and I were playing 20 questions. I asked her what her deepest secret was, and after some hesitation she told me she used to cut. I could tell she did not like talking about it, so I changed the subject. However when I looked at her wrists they were clean, no scars, so I have a few questions... Where else do girls usually cut? How do I go about talking to her about it? She said she has been banned from all kinds of blades, but has
Asked by: enigmaguy at
10:34:00 AM, Tuesday, June 24, 2014 EDT
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Scissors hiding around her room just in case, what should I do if she starts cutting again? Should I barge into her house and take every last blade? Should I talk about it with her? I am super concerned, and don't want to loose her, emotionally of physically.
You should just not talk to her about it just try and make her as happy as possible because asking as she's happy she won't feel the need to cut herself
SnoopyJun 24 2014 7:58amFLAGYou should try and make her as happy as possible but you do need to eventually talk to her about it.It's not something you can ignore and just hope that it goes away.Self harm is something serious that you need to help her through.Don't try and control her by taking away anything sharp but you should definitely talk to her about it one day away from anything she could grab in an emotional state.You should also take care to make her understand how you feel towards her and how her self harm would also effect you.If she feels the way that you do towards her she'll understand and hopefully get rid of the scissors.
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AnonymousJul 01 2014 6:55amFLAGAs a girl, I definitely have been through this with my Boyfriend it was hard when i told him, but im glad i did you should always be gentle with her and always make her happy, im always here if you ever need to talk about anything
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